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i m v worried for my child, he doesnt listen to ne1. i left my job recently for my child. he has no respect for ne1. my sasuma interferes in each n every small-small things which i do not like n all the time shouts me in front of my child for my behaviour. as a result he thinks he is v right from his side. my husband do not interfere in these things. he is v attached to me, but has become v aggressive like he wants means he wants.. he throw the things which he doesnt like..he is not bothered abt his HW. no care he shows for me.. can some1 suggest me?? aruna replied. normally this does happen in every house hold.i can understand you but i think u should be little calm .don't say no to everything he does.yes for some things u should say .and when ur inlaws r there around u just leave it to them whether he does mischief or not. they will handle it. when they r not there u can handle it but smoothly. i had the same problem.my daughter never listens to me when my inlaws are there around. so i stopped telling her .this worked. now she listens to me what ever i say.
when we shout at them they will not listen to us first , moreover we will become the culprits in front of our inlaws and u know we cannot explain our inlaws. Mummy replied. Hi Sakshi,
first of all dont worry its just a phase i wud suggest u just talk more and more as u cud to him. c that u get some time in a day wher u and he is alone may be u take him to garden everyday evening. i think ther is lack of communication between u 2 as u have been working. but now that u r at home try and get that trust from him. he believes more in ur mother in law ther is nothin wrong in that coz she is the one who took care of him till now. u just communicate i know its difficult but not immpossible my sis in law had same prob but now they r all ok i hope i helped. All the best and dont worry be strong and tackle the kid.