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hi all...i need certain help on this change of behaviour in my kid.my kid will be 3 this march.initially we were in a joint family but last year we moved out of the house and shifted elsewhere.initially the kid had grandparents and his uncles iwth him in the family...the kid was also not going to school at that time.when we shifted he was put in a school .initially he took around 15 days or so to get adjusted with this new environment but soon he got adjusted and was very happy..infact when we used to leave for our office he used to come out abd say goodbye(both me and my husband are working)everything was going fine but suddenly there is achnge in his behaviour...he insists that he needs to stay with his grandparents and he puts it so hardly that he starts crying and gets so arrogant and stubborn.i tried explaining him that u play with them but when its sleeping time u come to ur parents as every kid sleeps with is parents...in thsi case his grandparents are also responsible till certain extent as they also keep telling him that u stay with us tell your parents that u will stay with us and will not go back.i cannot tell anything to my in laws as they take everything in a negative direction rather than respecting my mother instinct which does not allow me to be away from him in night they blame me for keeping the kid away from them.so it is very hard to explain them.pls tell me what shall i do..i am very disheartened and broken as of now.... DEEPALI replied. DEAR FRIEND
YR PROBLEM IS NOT ONLY URS,IT EXIST IN MANY FAMILIES.WE WORKING PARENTS CAN NOT GIVE POSITIVE TIME TO OUR KIDS.TRY TO FIND WHAT IS THE MATTER FROM GRAND PARENTS WHICH ATTRACTS THE KID.IT MAY BE INTERESTING STORIES,OR A ROUND TO NEAR BY TEMPLE OR GARDEN.WITHOUT TELLING ANYBODY START DOING THE SAME.IT MAY WORK.
BEST OF LUCK....
DEEPALI