Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Hi
Archie,Parul,Sunshine,Anupama,Samarch,Raveena,and All

Everyday i read all ur messages. Happy with those who got their Pregnencies, at the same time i pray for those who dont get yet. Its really a wonderful feeling when a woman knew that she is going to be a mother for every women as i am also want to be...but my badluck i am also the same boat who r in waiting game is playing god with us.

I need all of ur help and support and suggession.
I am not living in India. When i found this board and start reading messages i felt like that i am not alone anyway here...

I am ttc since 3 years. My periods r pretty regular but from January i think it was gone some disturbed. I got my last periods on jan 25 th and again i got Aprl 6th meantime i dont get any symptoms of pregnency and i also didnt test HPT (bcz i fedup everytime when i missed my periods for 1 or 2 days and it shows -ve..) but aprl 2 to 4 th i started to clean my house my own bcz i am getting bore so think of that...after that immediately i got my periods but it was not like regular ones. Big clots with brownish and sometimes i use my hand to take out a clot from my vegina...(Oh god...)
and 12 days i bleed..the next day i went to doctor they did pregnency test and it came -ve but i strongly believe that i got miscarried...am i worng
Bcz 1. i never face that type of period before and after(my age is 30)
2.Big clots with brownish colour
3.12 days bleeding
4.extrodinary stomach cramps...(even this cramps also i never felt any of my periods)

Plz i am in confusing tht am i misscarried..Why i am asking is that if i misscarried then i can feel little happy abt that i can conceive naturally...otherwise i hv to choose other options..

pls give me all ur suggessions and help

vijji
Latha replied. I am very sorry to know what you are going thru right now. I have had 2 early miscarriages.
I have to agree with Archie. When I had my miscarriages, my pregnancy hormone level was still high. It went down only after 10 to 12 days. While I was bleeding (that time I didn't know I was pregant, all I knew was that I was about 10 days late), I did take a pregancy test and it came positive. (eventhough, rightthen, I was miscarrying). So, I don't think you miscarried...I am sorry to say that.
Since you didn't get your period for 2 months, i would suggest you to go to doctor for a check up.
All the best,
Latha Anupama replied. Hi Vijji,
Sorry, I am not the right person to give u advice on this issue.
All I can let you know from the ladies talk I used to have with my cousins. They have experienced what u did just now and they were pregnant.
I did mistake posting one message here. It isn't supposed to be here please ignore it.
Take Care!!!
Anupama
Anupama replied. Hi sanj,
I think your message has been displayed in this board. Thanks for the reply.
Unfortunately doctor isn't considering my case for IVF due to high FSH. I will be repeating this test again if it comes under range they may consider my case. I am praying to God for this.
If u don't mind can u let me know what your FSH level was?
Good luck for the Sonogram!!!
Anupama
archie replied. viji sorry to note your feelings and that that you got hurt.

if you went to Dr. during miscarriage or next day then you pregnancy test should come positive. The pregnancy hormone takes few weeks to go back to normal and this is a very good sign to suggest that you did not miscarry.

however weired period is expected when you did not have period for about 3-4 months, I am not surprised with either nature of flow or duration for which it stayed.

I am not sounding what you wanted to be but I don't like to raise false hopes, better to place truth in front of you.
Only a miscarriage but negative pregnancy is likely if you have had lost the fetus weeks before getting your period inside womb and I think if you do antibodies test you would get that answer to the point if you really were pregnant.

however, I must say regardless of how frustrated you could be if you missed period for a month you should have gone to Gynecologist to confirm/ruleout pregnancy thoughts. Especially when you ttc for years, you must not want to avoid prenatal care if that was pregnancy and want to make it possible to take good care of yourself to take pregnancy to the end. By not seeing a Gynecologist you are going to place yourself and fetus at risk if at all it is pregnancy.

Archie