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Dear Archie
I hope u remember me.Writing after long time actually had gone to india.How r u and advait.Archie i am taking folic acid tablets since last months and we have also stopped using precautions now waiting for results any news will let u know.
Archie in 1 of ur message i came to know u r maharashtrian even i m maharashtrian.R u from amchi mumbai.
Archie ata he je me lihite ahe te apalya bhashet lihite karan mala ha problem english madhe lihayala far awkward watat ahe .Archie tumhala mahit ahe mala magchya pregnancy madhe kai complication hote te.Archie mage me conceive karayachya agodar indiala gele hote tehwa asas gynac la bhetayala gele karan amhi try karayacha vichar karat hoto tine maja internal check up karayala ghetala pan mala te sahan hot navata me tila nit check up karu dilach nahi actually mala far uncomfortable watat hota ani tila pan tikde tight watat hota tine sangitala hymen ajun tight ahe mhanun.Tine mag 1 gel dila waparayala amhi ithe alo ani me lagech 2nd mahinyat conceive kela ani nantar cha tumhala sagala mahit ahe.Mala 1 vichar khup khato ahe ki hymen tight aslya mulle tar majya balachi waad thambli nahi na.Ani doosra vichar asa ki pregnant hona shakya ahe ka jar hymen tutala nahi tar.Jehwa maja D&C kela tehwa te hymen tutla asel na.Ata jar me conceive kela tar parat tasa problem nahi na honar.Archie me tumhala khup trass dete ahe na pls i m sorry pan mala tumchyashi bolla ki kharach far bara vatata.Ani hya sagalya goshti me tumhala man moklyapanane sangu shakte mhanun lihite ahe marathi madhe lihite tya baddal pls sorry
Archie will be waiting for ur reply thanks in advance lots of love and kisses to advait may god bless u and all your family members.
take care
sangeeta archie replied. Dear Sangeeta,
Do you want me to tell the whole epic you have been through just to make sure I remember your case:)
Good to know you are Maharashtrian.

Nahi, tumhala ata hymen chi adchan honar nahi. Mazya mate gel application has helped. Doosri gost ashi ki tumhi pregnant rahilat mahnjech hymen barrier rahila nahi. Hymen ha barrier asto keval tyana ki jyanche penetration vyavasthith hot nahi. The fact that you got pregnant confirms you don't have that problem anymore.
Even if it was there then it would be very less likely be cause of miscarriage. It was a chemical abortion type of case. Sangeeta baryachda period yenya poorvich miscarriage hote aani tya veles tumhi mahnta ki period velevar aala. About 85% miscarriages takes place before getting to know they are pregnant and about 12% happens in first trimester while only about 2-3 % occure in or afte second trimester.

YOu should go ahead and ttc without any concern.

once you get pregnant baby will be in amniotic sac within uterus, and the cervix will close the aperture to uterus (mucous plug) so nothing outside plug can affect pregnancy. Tumche hymen he cervix chya baherchi baab aahe.
I hope this response will help clearing your doubt.

I am glad that you are taking Folic acid in many miscarriages this is a culprit. Eat healthy and on time, no dieting please.

Relax in your luteal phase and let me know when you miss your period. Hymen tutle aahe he tumhala intercourse chya sahaztevarun lakshaat yeil. hymen intact asel tar intercourse difficult aani painful, shivay purnapane penetration pan honar nahi. Zar penetration vayavasthith hot aasel taar hymen chi shanka dokyatoon kadhoon taka.
Archie