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Hi All,
I need some advice & sure to get something good from here. I have 4 yr baby girl. Recently for last few months I see –
1. She throws tantrum in small things.
2. Her anger stays long.
3. If we try to make her understand she will not listen till we shout at her or some time hit her ( we try to avoid that though).
4. She is super active & hardly sits in one place. It is really difficult to keep her engaged as she become bore easy within 15 mins. But one thing that she loves is listening story. That is the only thing we can do to keep her sit for some time.
5. She is overall good in academic.

Background :
We both work, she stays in day care. We pick her from day care arnd 7 pm everyday & we give her full attention all the time when she is with us.

Now my concern is how to control her anger & make her sweet human being. I am concerned that she does not become arrogant slowly. Please help me how to handle tantrum & how to engage her.
n replied. May be she is tired and is not getting enough sleep? rithika replied. Take her out on weekends..,do things ,play the games which she likes..take her to resorts ..she is jus a small 4 years old baby all these things will attract her i am sure rithika replied. I think your daughter needs you and your support.. she is become arrogant because you and your husband don' t give her time ,somewhere she feels left out... i think as a mother you should take a break and spend some quality time with your daughter and make her understand that your working for her better future..