Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Hi Soumya,

Thanks for your support honey. I do know where you're coming from. You know when I was in college as friends we used to talk about many things. Once we talked about what I would do if i could not have a child and I always stood by the notion of adoption. Later when I got engaged and my hubby had asked me what would i do, I had told him straight away, adopt. And lately he was asking me whether it was possible that since I was always firm about my course of action i.e. adoption is why this could be happening to us.
It hurt to think in those terms. But I know if it comes to that, I will. Because I have so much love to give to my child. And a mothers love is not always born about of being in the womb, it is the emotional connection. And I truly believe that it is a soulmate kind of thing. You never know where you find it.
Soumya, I will know my child when I hold him/her. It doesn't matter if he/she is born from my body or someone else's.
I do with all my heart want to experience feeling a new life inside me. But if that's not going to happen, or isn't meant to be, won't stop me from being a mom.
Thank you for your understanding. I really need friends like you at this point in my life.
Take care of yourself and your baby.
With Love,
Tina SoumyaS replied. Anytime Sunshine. Will be there for you.

Don't worry, you are so good in mind and have so much love to give, your baby should not delay now...he should come soon..We all will wait for that sweet message from you.

All the best dear, you be happy and enjoy life. OK?

Love
Soumya. Parul replied. That was a touchy mssg. Well we are all in the same boat .. waiting for god to bless us and i am sure he'll be kind enough and answer our prayers.

Love,
parul