Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

My sister was married for 14 years and still waiting to hear the sweetest word for a woman i.e. MAA. She had tried virtually everything ,all BABA ,Temples, Dargahs , medication at one of the most advanced fertility clinics in the world. Everyone gave her an assurance ,keep patience etc. but nothing could give her the joy of accomplishment.Her husband was so desperate that he even asked her to go for some kind of secret pregnancy through someone else. She straight away denied that .When she told this to her friend ,her friend advised her to go ahead if her husband was so desperate. She even suggested her the name of one of her colleagues for this secret pregnancy who she assured will maintain the confidentiality. Keeping patience for years together and looking at the zeal of her husband for a child, she ultimately decided to act upon as per the suggestion of her fast friend. She had an intercourse with her friend’s colleague . Her friend told her that don’t take your husband for granted and let him be under impression that the pregnancy is through him only. The very same day she gave a TAVIZ to her husband and requested for an intercourse at the advice of her friend. This is now a one month old story and my sister has missed her period. She is very happy and shares the joy with her husband who perhaps thinks that it’s his own baby only. Today , my sister rang me up telling that she sometimes feel guilty on what she has done, but at the same time the amount of joy she is getting is overcoming that guilty. She just wanted to know through me whether she was right. Can anyone guide her. Please help her… aggarwal replied. I think she did the right thing. Afterall its the joy of producing the child that is important to both the parents. deepa replied. I don't know wheather she did right or wrong..but don't you guys scared of chances of blackmailed by the guy who got her pregnant?.It is better to keep the secret from her husband.Even though he said go for it, still he is a human being, you will never know how he is going to act with your sis or baby in future when he finds out about it.I really don't know what to say..why did n't you guys tried with artificial insamination instead of having physical relation with another man?.