Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Dear Sunshine,
Let me not repeat about God thing, it's for sure in his hand, who has whole control on miracles in the world.

Knowing that you have PCOS and your spouse poor sperm count makes it easy to picturize why the failure. But makes it very sad to note that one has to deal with two way difficulty.

His count is awfully low, not scaring or not trying to upset you more, I know you are very down the hills. But want to let you know that things are possible still, only you will need a good fertility treatment Dr.

You would need to go through treatment to have control on PCOS symptoms and be cautious while choosing a cycle to get pregnant while at the same time isolate quality sperms from whatever he has and give about 3 shots for IUI. If things fail here as well then IVF is one hopeful resort for you.

I think the situation you both are going through is really saddening and quite stressful. Remember however to keep healthy sperms he has to learn to enjoy the life and sure a urologist will make suggestion on sperm improvements. There are Ayurvedic ways if you live in India or want to get help of your best confiding persons health from India. It will be a matter or time to get close to normal counts. I think he needs to be stress free before going for a repeat of test.

Needless to say, you need to learn to be stress free to support him mentally to sail this difficult boat. We are here to support you morally.

Archie Sunshine replied. Hi Archie,

Thanks so much for your questions. You are right, it is a tough time for us. More so for him than me. I know I can deal with this. But I am so afraid for him. He is the sort of person who carries a lot of stress, is pessimistic..I know it makes it very hard. I am trying my best to make him cheerful and stressfree and relaxed. I know God is with me... I will come out of this. I have to.

Archie, what I wanted to know is what exactly is IUI? I have no idea. The doc is not proceeding with us right now coz she wants to take another analysis for my hubby. Following this she will be sending him to a urologist for checking the reason for such a low count. I am continuing my medication, along with Yoga and exercise.
I will ask about Ayurvedic medicines for him and me. Whatever works.
Will wait for your reply.
Once again.

Thanks so much for your support Archie.

With love,
Sunshine