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Hi! Friends, Toady i got my 3rd Miscarriage..i had already 2 miscarriages in 2003..now wt am going to do? every time miscarrage happend at 7weeks..i have no kids..im 23 now..why this happend to me? I took some blood tests before third pregnency .. evrything was fine... But why this happend again?.Now Doc said take fertility tests...i dont know wt happend next... im Basically from India Hyd.Now im in USA (from 2003)
wt do u think take treatment in USA or INDIA ?? latha replied. Dear rrr,

I am so sorry to hear about your miscarriages. I totally understand what you are going through. Because I had 2 miscarriages myself, one in oct 2001 another in oct 2003 both at 7 weeks just like yours. Me and my DH are trying again for past 4 months without sucess. I know too well that miscarriage is very painful, both physically and emotionally (all the questions we try to answer ourselves like..why me? what did I do wrong..and the lonliness eventhough we are literally surrounded by people...etc, only the ones who had recurrent miscarriages can understand..it's very hard). All I could say to you is, please hang in there, trust in God...eventhough at times it is very difficult. He has a plan for everything. Go for the treatments soon. You are only 23 you are still young. If your insurance doesn't cover the treatments here in US, it is better to do that in India. Indian doctors are really good besides you can get lot of support from your parents.
When I had my 2nd miscarriage, I went to the nearby library (in spite of my depression and sadness) and found this book on miscarriage.
\";Preventing Miscarriage : The Good News\";
by Jonathan Scher,Carol Dix - it gave what I desparately wanted at that time: comfort, answers to all my questions and more importantly HOPE. I highly recommend that you get this book and read for yourself, whenever you feel like it. Meanwhile, if you want any support, please don't hesitate to let me know. I am in US as well, near chicago. Take care rrr, I will remember you in my daily prayers.
Lots love and prayers,
latha archie replied. Dear rrr,
sorry to hear your third loss in a row.

It's definitely hurtful.

If you plan to go with USA treatment then make sure your insurance is covering all as they would go through battery of tests. You will have plenty of blood to give and number to tests to be done.

I think usually such things happen due to antiphospholipid antibodies, referring to second and third miscarriage.

Second reason is incompetent cervix, which is what looks like to me. This is something will be taken care by Circlage. In this they will give stitches to cervix soon after confirming pregnancy to assure that pregnancy is carried through the full term and the stitches will be removed beofore delivery.

Depending on insurance facily and estimates (if you have to pay would that expenses come more than your ticket price to India and treatement there) you need to make a fruitful decision.

But your case is definitely worth taking seriously and well qualified for details on immunological and fertility aspects.

Archie