Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Hi ARchie,
hope u remember me..its me Muskaan one who was diagonised premature ovarian failure...archie these days i m feeling very down..i have mood swings..in the day I am happy and normal but during the nights when I go to bed i feel depressed about the emptiness around me..i cry daily, i feel God has devoid me of happiness..I complain to my husband, he consoles me but he too gets bugged. I compare my life with my friends life. I feel they are better off than me in all ways. I live in a joint family. there are some adjustment problems in my inlaws..i know what i am doing will ruin my married life..but i am not able to cope up. my husband is a very nice person he is very supportive. my only consoling factor is my husband...let me know what can i do TH replied. HI MUSKAAN.REMEMBER ME?I'M REALLY SORRY.I KNOW WHAT UR GOING THROUGH.HAVE U FINALLY DECIDED THAT U WANT AN EGG DONOR?WHY DO U HAVE TO TELL UR IN-LAWS ABOUT IT?IF UR HUSBAND IS SUPPORTIVE,WHAT ELSE DO U WANT?HOW OLD R U N UR HUSBAND?U KNOW MUSKAAN,UR RELIGION MIGHT NOT PERMIT U BUT I'M SURE GOD DOESNT WANT U TO SUFFER LIKE THIS AND I THINK ALL MEANS TO GET PREGNANT R JUSTIFIED AND PERMISSIBLE IN THE EYES OF GOD.PLS DONT THINK THAT I'M AGAINST UR RELIGION,INFACT MY BEST FRIEND IS MUSLIM.TAKE CARE OF URSELF.U KNOW I BELIEVE THERE IS ALWAYS A TIME FOR EVERYTHING AND MAYBE UR TIME TO GET PREGNANT IS TAKING A LITTLE LONGER,SAME AS MINE.CHEER UP DEAR.HUGS. archiek replied. Dear Muskan,
Sorry to note troubles. Yes, I remember you. You are OK to feel bad sometime but don't let that type of emotion rule you each day.

I think if your spouse is ready then think of egg donor and see what you have in storage.

Archie