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hi,
My daughter is 2 and half years old and she has not yet potty trained. she tells us when she wants to go for susu and does it in the bathroom. no problem with that. But when she has to pass the stool she does it with the pants only. During nights i put her on diaper and so early in the morning she uses the diaper and let us allow to remove only after passes her stool. has anyone faced this situation.. what are the ways to train her to go to the bathroom. in fact, i tried all other tantrums like chocolate, cheese etc., she says and knows that she has to go to the bathroom , but at that time she does it outside only.

thanks, Raji replied. Hi
Even I had the same problem ,I'll tell my experience.My son used to do potty in his diapers after that he used to tell me.Then I started telling him to use the potty and twice or thrice I emptied the diaper contents into his potty and finally flushing it ( flushing part was exciting to him ).
Secondly showed him some potty training videos .
Thirdly after few days , i didn't let him wear diapers,there were quite a number of accidetns, by the time he would reach his potty , he wouldhave already done that in the carpet.There was a time when he refused to sit and do ,and did just outside the potty .But patience paid off and he did learn to use that properly.
My kid didn't have any regular timimgs also
So keep on trying ..When they do learn ,they learn in a just few days.
Don't worry she will learn in few days

-Raji ruchika replied. hi,
well may be u find it hard but u have to put as much effort as u can here plz make her sit on the pot forcefully if u have to hold her tightly for doing that plz do .

whenu know that she is on to pass stool i mean in morning time take her diaper out and take her to the toilet and put her on thepot try her putting pressure .if u feel she is not passing stools then take some cotton wet it with bathing soap so that it becomes slippery and insert it into the anus(medical term for this is ANEMA) and hold her butts with ur fingerslike we pinch somebody gently(this will make pressure inside) and immediately make her sit on pot she will 110% pass her stools in the pot.PLZ DONT USE THIS FREQUENTLY SOMETIMES KIDS GET HABBITUAL OF THIS. BUT SOMETIMES ITS FINE.


many times taking her to toilet and putting her on pot making her put pressure will really really help.