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Role of in-laws:To EO

2006-09-06

Name: Raj Hi, after reading your experience now i feel that you must take a firm behaviour with your husband also in this regard.Be very firm that you cannot tolerate this nonsense anymore.plainly tell him that you have been tolerating this for quite a while ultimately the stress you are undergoing will make your health suffer.anything happening to you will also make him suffer.after all you are the one who has to take care of your child also so for the betterment of your son he must think taht what he is doing is wrong atleast,if he loves you truly he will realise his mistake if not then show him that even you can get annoyed.being his wife you have full authority to lead a peaceful life and pray to god.all the best.any queries let me know

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2006-09-07

Name: malini
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you know the best what wud give you mental peace
stop worrying do what you feel is best for you
if you feel staying with parents is better do it
if have to visit in-laws keep ureself engrossed in a book, childcooking something u like.Minimal conversaton
do not encourage any conversation
its upto you
if they try to make you fight just walk out of the room and keep on repeating this in ure mind that you wud not let them sour
ure relationship Make yourself strong

2006-09-07

Name: EO
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Thanks Raj, I am really wondering what r they going to do this time, when I visit Indiam they always make us fight. I try to ignore them but MIL talk/ques a lot. They keep coming to my mom's place and ask me to leave with them, they dont just let me be. And if I live with them they complain to my husband, and he somehow feels that they are always right and try to defend them and I feel alone. Then I spend all my year thinking of that disastorous trip. I just want to be at peace this time.

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