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Trying since long:hope ur all right Pari

2005-01-22

Name: sonia Dearest pari,
u r not on the board again!!!!!! hope that u r fine. if its something else thats keeping u busy then its grt. but otherwise hope u r not thinking too much. last time u wrote about the book which u brought and the memories it brought to u.
oh !! dear pari everything will be fine.u will get what u r wishing . this year will not disappoint u. please dont get sad. i know how it is . but we have to wait pari...if thats what we r destined for then we have to. but pari i am praying that ur wait should not be long.
i sincerely wish u happiness.
love sonia

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Dearest pari,
u r not on the board again!!!!!! hope that u r fine. if its something else thats keeping u busy then its grt. but otherwise hope u r not thinking too much. last time u wrote about the book which u brought and the memories it brought to u.
oh !! dear pari everything will be fine.u will get what u r wishing . this year will not disappoint u. please dont get sad. i know how it is . but we have to wait pari...if thats what we r destined for then we have to. but pari i am praying that ur wait should not be long.
i sincerely wish u happiness.
love sonia pari replied. hi!!
it feels so good to know someone cares so much bout u...i had been thinking il write to u soon...but...sometimes i just get upset...u know...
actually i and my husband had decided tat we will have sex every alternate day this month...but during my supposedly fertile days, he wasnt willing on one of the days...and i could see tat he really was tired...and i understood him too...but in the morning i felt i lost another one of the precious days....and then after a few days...again we didnt have it for 4 consecutive days....(though it wasnt my fertile period anymore). i felt very bad and lost temper on sat morning...i really misbehaved with him...he was still so patient with me...so understanding...tat made me feel so guilty....then i said sorry and told him how desperate i was to have a baby...and he said even he was desperate (this is the first time he said tat) but acting like crazy wont solve our problem...
sonia, the man i have is the best in the world...he doesnt deserve to suffer with me....i got my dream husband...and im not even able to enjoy my married life....im spoiling everything tat i have for something tat i dont have....but no matter how hard i try there is nothing i can do to overcome my grief!
u know, i recently got a mail from a friend. she was saying tat among all the friends i was the one enjoying the most...going to different countries..and having so many new experiences...
can u believe it? those who dont know bout my miscarriage are actually envious of me!!?? they dont even know i m envious of them for something tat most people get so easily....
thanks for praying for me, sonia. i too want to see u succeed very soon.
i m very sorry...but today im really upset...
m expecting my menses in 2-3 days.
love,
pari.

2005-01-25

Name: pari
Subject:

sonia

hi!!
it feels so good to know someone cares so much bout u...i had been thinking il write to u soon...but...sometimes i just get upset...u know...
actually i and my husband had decided tat we will have sex every alternate day this month...but during my supposedly fertile days, he wasnt willing on one of the days...and i could see tat he really was tired...and i understood him too...but in the morning i felt i lost another one of the precious days....and then after a few days...again we didnt have it for 4 consecutive days....(though it wasnt my fertile period anymore). i felt very bad and lost temper on sat morning...i really misbehaved with him...he was still so patient with me...so understanding...tat made me feel so guilty....then i said sorry and told him how desperate i was to have a baby...and he said even he was desperate (this is the first time he said tat) but acting like crazy wont solve our problem...
sonia, the man i have is the best in the world...he doesnt deserve to suffer with me....i got my dream husband...and im not even able to enjoy my married life....im spoiling everything tat i have for something tat i dont have....but no matter how hard i try there is nothing i can do to overcome my grief!
u know, i recently got a mail from a friend. she was saying tat among all the friends i was the one enjoying the most...going to different countries..and having so many new experiences...
can u believe it? those who dont know bout my miscarriage are actually envious of me!!?? they dont even know i m envious of them for something tat most people get so easily....
thanks for praying for me, sonia. i too want to see u succeed very soon.
i m very sorry...but today im really upset...
m expecting my menses in 2-3 days.
love,
pari.

2005-01-25

Name: sonia
Subject:

Dear Pari.......i dont know why but i just thought so that u must be lil upset.oh dear....please dont get so negative. i know something which people get so easily and we have to endlessly struggle bring lot of bitterness. we think it as our failure. and we get imaptient . and that impatience makes us desperate. but pari when we get desperate we lose the power to think and we do lot of wrong things. dont get me wrong pari...... butu have a wonderful husband who is understanding, caring moreover you r very young .its not that ur age is running out. u still have lots of time. juat try for a couple of months to bring this burden off your mind.dont do sex for procreation just do itas a natural basic need to satisfy ur pleasure. ya u can plan to make love on yur fertile days but dont make it like a duty. then both of u will get tired and boared and will not be willing to do it.try this pari .please and u may get lucky.

i know pari that this is a very delicate period. because u just cant think of anything else. right now even im upset with my husband..because 2 consequtive sundays he called my mil and also spoke to my sil. i felt if he wants to speak to my mil he can call on week days when my sil will not be around. i cant tolerate he asking my sil abt her health , pregnancy and all that. and to top it all my sil was telling me that he was worried abt his next yrs NRI status since i asked him to stay longer. now i was really hurt u know. but im trying to stay cool.
see ur hubby said that even he is desperate. men r very different frm women. most of the times they r not able to show their emotions. but they also want.ofcourse they do but cant express like us. dont spoil ur relation with ur hubby and baby will come soon.
keep urself occupied with something else.ok pari i will mail u soon.
lots of love . keep up the light of hope.
sonia

2005-01-25

Name: pari
Subject:

hello

hi sonia!
just read ur mail to veena. dont get upset by astrologers and weird dreams...
when i had my miscarriage, i often dreamt bout it again and again....those nightmares...they tend to make u upset...but they have no connection whatsoever with reality.
and bout astrologer. one very well-known astrologer told me i wont get married before dec, 2003. and i got married in 2002!! my mausi said he never predicted wrong...then how was he wrong bout me??
for ur peace of mind u can try going to other astrologers. ul see all of them contradicting each other. so dont worry. they are not gods. ok?
by the way, im also a taurean!! though i never got anything easily..but most of the times..i too got what i wanted. but now when i look back, it seems i was cheated upon everytime by god and my optimism made me think tat was the best for me. i was emotionally shattered a no. of times before too. but i never gave it tat much of thought once i passed tat stage. but now...i keep thinking bout the bitter experiences of my past too...
cant help that.
when in feb do u plan to get ur polyp and fibroid removed?
ok then, will mail u soon.
love,
pari.

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