Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Dear Archie
Thanks for the suggestions u gave...
previously i had a pregnancy ,but that was unplanned...as soon as we had intercourse within 48hours i took the morning after pills ...still i conceived and was travelling....so i went for medical abortion....there they said that the fetus don't have a heart beat...at that time i was not having prenatal vitamins....so only i think something went wrong...from that time i was very much afraid of that event...and i pray god for very healthy pregnancy..archie...please,please pray for me that i should have a very healthy pregnancy...and deliver very healthy baby...archie...
are u tamil...speaking india..
tell me about u...or we will chat once archie...
my problem is i'm very much worried and i have noone to share my feelings...except my hubby...but u know he is man right...he can understand only some...not all...
pl. wish me and bless me archie..for healthy pregnancy and deliver a healthy baby...as a good friend...
thanks archie..
i think i'm going to wait till i go to my place and do the test...
if its positive..i will immediately go to a doc. and inform u all about it archie...
where do u live archie..i mean which place?
pl. tell me about u...
thanks for being a good friend..
regards
meena.
if u have any suggestions also..pl. tell me about it...for this pregnancy...
thanks.....

Priya replied. Bar
Let me ask you one question. You seem confused about this pregnancy. you are saying you want to get pregnant and then i hear that you have had abortions.Look there are many women here that are eagerly waiting to here some news for them selves and here you are talikinh about unwanted pregnancy.I can only say that you need to get your priorities right as this is not a game! if you feel that a baby is an anwser to you insecurites then you are wrong!!! you need to be secue within as this baby is going to need you care and support for a few years!!!!'
We are not god here we are only here to advice you.we can help to an extent but the rest is up to you.
Priya
sonia replied. Dear meena,
allthe best to u dear. dont worry u will have a normal pregnancy. be grtful to HIM if ur pregnant. take care of urself .ur diet and be happy. dont think whatever happened in the past atleast now. stay where u r comfortable.
wishing u baby dust.
love