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Hi all..I had my first m/c couple of weeks ago. Neeedless to say, I was heartbroken and sad. My DH was sad as well, but it took him just couple of days and he is back to his normal mood/routine. I am doing ok as well, but just wondering if his reaction is a normal male reaction. He was understanding thru it all, but just wants to focus on the future and be positive. Any of your DH's had similar reaction? Priya replied. Soory to hear about your miscarriage.Men are different to women as they hide there feelings and feel that the only way to move on is to brush the emotions aside and behave as ifeverything is normal as that way everyone would just move on.normally this is not the case as women are more emotional then men and they find that hard to understand. But i am sure soon you will be a proud mum and you will also forget this episode of you life.
Priya pari replied. hi!
i think u r the one who replied to my message on miscarriage board. i understand how u feel now. im sorry. i had a m/c last year. husbands are not as emotional as we are because we carry the baby. and ya..ur hubby might be feeling bad but he wont show you. u will feel more sad if he shows u...
my husband also feels i should get on with life although im not able to even after one year.
my husband is very hopeful that he'll be a proud dad one day. so he doesnt bother much about the past. moreover no body asks him bout the 'good news'. they only ask me...so he is not directly affected...and you know, sometimes we feel that therez something wrong with our body that we miscarried. bcoz when i lost the baby, he was inside my body. i was responsible for his well being. although it wasnt my fault,it may be my state of health that led to the m/c. so ladies feel more sensitive towards m/c.
i think its a normal reaction.
just relax...everything will be alright..
pari.