hi i am not new to this site, but i have lost touched. i have been trying since very long. Can say about a year. Since i started having intercourse w/o precaution i am having irregular periods. My doctor advised me to take for two months patch and then with clomid. I had done one month with clomid and the 2nd month with patch to regularise my periods. Now after that i have to go to inida and so thought no pointin taking clomid. After that i had my regular eriod with 28 cycle and less. I was happy that when i return back to us i dont have prob. Now after that also i am not conceived in the past 3 cycles. This cycle i was really happy that i was pregnant, since i didn;t get my periods on the expected date and i was expereimncing different kinds of uneasyness. so i thought i may be pregnant. But i was having little kind of bleeding from the day 15th. Since i was stressing little bit. Now i got my periods after 2 days of delay.
I was thinking too much of this and making myself stressful by counting days day&night. I keep count of days and while having intercourse also. I cant stop thinking of having my baby. the friends circle i have all r having babies so it makes me crazy tooooooooooooo much. I dont know what to do . I sometimes keep crying the whole day. I NEED BIG HELP I KNOW. my hubby is nice, he says stop thinking but i cant. PLS PLS PLS PLS PLS help me. I know tellin gis easy dont stress, but something else i need. so help me
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hi i am not new to this site, but i have lost touched. i have been trying since very long. Can say about a year. Since i started having intercourse w/o precaution i am having irregular periods. My doctor advised me to take for two months patch and then with clomid. I had done one month with clomid and the 2nd month with patch to regularise my periods. Now after that i have to go to inida and so thought no pointin taking clomid. After that i had my regular eriod with 28 cycle and less. I was happy that when i return back to us i dont have prob. Now after that also i am not conceived in the past 3 cycles. This cycle i was really happy that i was pregnant, since i didn;t get my periods on the expected date and i was expereimncing different kinds of uneasyness. so i thought i may be pregnant. But i was having little kind of bleeding from the day 15th. Since i was stressing little bit. Now i got my periods after 2 days of delay.
I was thinking too much of this and making myself stressful by counting days day&night. I keep count of days and while having intercourse also. I cant stop thinking of having my baby. the friends circle i have all r having babies so it makes me crazy tooooooooooooo much. I dont know what to do . I sometimes keep crying the whole day. I NEED BIG HELP I KNOW. my hubby is nice, he says stop thinking but i cant. PLS PLS PLS PLS PLS help me. I know tellin gis easy dont stress, but something else i need. so help me
unknown & unlucky replied. hi NP,
i have posted 2queries in my list and nobody answered me. please anybody answer me back. I am devastated. I am need of help i dont have anybody to talk to me. i need help and advice. and is there anychance i can chat with anybody on my health issues and problems. please help
NP replied. Hello
It is perfectly okay, you can have intercourse when ever you want. & if possible make it from 12-17 or 18....it could be the possiblity that you might get your little late or little early...
So it is percetly fine to do that....
I hope this help
Take care
& good luck
& happy new year, I hope this year will shower you with a wonderful baby
God Bless You all
Bye
NP replied. Hello
Well that's ok about increasing your weight. you will be fine when you are doing excerise. I was 107 before marriage & now i am 119, likely to be because of my pregnancy. Yea, don't do much of tummy crunches. & yes, don't do all those excerise together...take some rest between them & don't swim soo fast. Do either cycling or trendmill & around 10 -15 is alright.
Answer to most important questions i might noe finish this, because i have to go to do do surgery. Well i figure out on last thursay that i might be pregnant..that's because i missed one of my period. I had very little bleding & little craming....The most important thing is when you miss you period & get little bit of bledding & cramping. You can also figure it out, when you feel dizzy, but mostly it does or sometimes it doesn't happen. Have you missed any period untli now?
Sorry i am not able to answer to you, i'll send you an another response explaning well about you...
Bye, take care
unknown & unlucky replied. thank you NP it was great of u to reply back. Its helping a lot.
Sorry for being too squeaky. I want to ask, i am doing exercise daily. I am doing treadmill for 20 minutes OR cyclying for 10 min and stepper for 10 min. Is it ok??? And one of my friends told that i shd not do tummy crunches Is it so??? since i am trying. And is it ok to do swimming. I have learnt it now so i just want to continue it. And by the way i weigh 134 pounds and my height is 5\";1 3/4. I know its .lot of weight. When i came from india recently 3 months back i was 127 and now i gained quickly.
The MAIN QUESTION ::
I had my periods last 24th of oct which was delayed by 2 days. Before having periods i had spottings and after a week i had my periods. The problem is i feel undigestion whole day, some times vomittings and i feel very hungry all the time. But i had my periods this fully with little bit of high flow than usually i have. And somethings is running in my stomach. Sometimes i feel like stomach ache and sometimes feel dizzy and tired and odnt know wht's going on. Do u think i am pregnant or .......????
Pl;ease HELPME....
NP replied. Hello
It is perfectly okay to try since you are 28. keep your weight low, reduce more fat things to eat...& if possible go for walk...
i know's it hard, because i don't go to walk & too hard when there is no street road...
i hope this helps
& yes calm & less stressful...
take care
Best of luck
unknown & unlucky replied. thank u everyone for helping me. I am keeping myself calm and busy so that i wont be stressed. Next thing i want to ask since this is my first pregancy and already i am 28 3/4 years old is it ok fo rmy age and trying since 1year
help me
NP replied. Hello,
don't be panic, it is however important not to be panic during this stages.
& i would advise you not to think like today is my 12th day & 15th day & things like that, that would impact on your body
try to stay calm, & while haveing intercourse, take your mind off those things. & yes,to get pregnant, one must need to keep track of there periods. I know it's being frustrated tha, you are trying to conceive, but you cann't.....if your cycle comess late, then have intercousre for a week, atleast alternate days, & don't matter if it's night.
i hope this helps
bye
take care, don't be panic
try that for a month of ur cycle, if you cann't go to doctor, get some test or trying testing from EPT
good luck
Rose replied. Hi,
My case was exactly like you. But now I am a mom. Since it is one yr of trying for kids, why don't you consult a infertility specilist.
My story: I had a irregular periods, i took 5 clomid cycles including 3 IUIs, and one IVF, but no success. All my blood tests are perfect, no obnormalities. I want to try for a last chance for Laprascopy surgery and I went for that. While doing surgery my doctor found that I have initial stage of Endometriosis (thats why I used to get spotting two days before my periods), the cycle after surgery I took clomid and went for IUI and i got success. If you can try this and stop thinking too much. Yoga and meditation can help your mind and body get relaxed.
NP replied. hello
Well i am saying this again....don't panic, no need to be crying
I know it feels weird when your freind circle has kids, but...
well i didn't understand that are you pregnant or are you worried that your cycle is late & you are not able to be pregnant.....
let me know about that, may be i can help
sorry, i didn't understand & i am in hurry.....but yes i'll through your message again & right down that are you worried about your periods? & if you don't mind telling on which days did you had intercourse, may be that will help me to concludeon some things
Bye
take care
& yes, don't be PANIC....
2004-11-30
#1
Name: unknown & unlucky Subject: hello no body answered to my questions pls answer
hi NP,
i have posted 2queries in my list and nobody answered me. please anybody answer me back. I am devastated. I am need of help i dont have anybody to talk to me. i need help and advice. and is there anychance i can chat with anybody on my health issues and problems. please help
2004-11-11
#2
Name: NP Subject: Unknown & Unlucky
Hello
It is perfectly okay, you can have intercourse when ever you want. & if possible make it from 12-17 or 18....it could be the possiblity that you might get your little late or little early...
So it is percetly fine to do that....
I hope this help
Take care
& good luck
& happy new year, I hope this year will shower you with a wonderful baby
God Bless You all
Bye
2004-11-04
#3
Name: NP Subject: Unknown & Unlucky
Hello
Well that's ok about increasing your weight. you will be fine when you are doing excerise. I was 107 before marriage & now i am 119, likely to be because of my pregnancy. Yea, don't do much of tummy crunches. & yes, don't do all those excerise together...take some rest between them & don't swim soo fast. Do either cycling or trendmill & around 10 -15 is alright.
Answer to most important questions i might noe finish this, because i have to go to do do surgery. Well i figure out on last thursay that i might be pregnant..that's because i missed one of my period. I had very little bleding & little craming....The most important thing is when you miss you period & get little bit of bledding & cramping. You can also figure it out, when you feel dizzy, but mostly it does or sometimes it doesn't happen. Have you missed any period untli now?
Sorry i am not able to answer to you, i'll send you an another response explaning well about you...
Bye, take care
2004-11-09
#4
Name: unknown & unlucky Subject: question
thank u NP
Actually last month (OCT) i was expecting my periods on 22nd and i got on 24th missed 2 days. I was happy on those days since i was feeling tired and had little bleeding on 18th -22 days and dizzy also so when i missed 2 days i thought i may be pregnant. And those days only i started doing exercise. so i thought may be that was miscarriagebcoz i had lot of bleeding. but i didn't go to doc or confirmed it .
so i dont know. let see this month what happens.
One more que: IS it ok to do intercourse once in a day in days between 14-18 ????let me know
thanks
2004-11-03
#5
Name: unknown & unlucky Subject: HELP PLEASE
thank you NP it was great of u to reply back. Its helping a lot.
Sorry for being too squeaky. I want to ask, i am doing exercise daily. I am doing treadmill for 20 minutes OR cyclying for 10 min and stepper for 10 min. Is it ok??? And one of my friends told that i shd not do tummy crunches Is it so??? since i am trying. And is it ok to do swimming. I have learnt it now so i just want to continue it. And by the way i weigh 134 pounds and my height is 5\";1 3/4. I know its .lot of weight. When i came from india recently 3 months back i was 127 and now i gained quickly.
The MAIN QUESTION ::
I had my periods last 24th of oct which was delayed by 2 days. Before having periods i had spottings and after a week i had my periods. The problem is i feel undigestion whole day, some times vomittings and i feel very hungry all the time. But i had my periods this fully with little bit of high flow than usually i have. And somethings is running in my stomach. Sometimes i feel like stomach ache and sometimes feel dizzy and tired and odnt know wht's going on. Do u think i am pregnant or .......????
Pl;ease HELPME....
2004-11-04
#6
Name: NP Subject: unkown & unlucky
Hello
Well sorry about posting half message...
So as i was saying to you that, have you missed any periods until? even thou little bleeading for 1 or 2 days...You will have morning sickness if this is the first early pregnancy...or nausea...that comes around 4-6 weeks....
Have you tried mesuring from any test kit? or get you blood test, so that you can soon know about the level of hcg & can also know if you are pregnant.
& yes, i wanted to ask that have you ever taken any birth control pills or condoms? i'll be waiting
& i don't think i am sure to give my opinion, but if you could repley me about the dizzyness & morning sickness & periods..then i can probably
well i hope you will take good care & don't go for much more excersise
Bye
take care
2004-11-03
#7
Name: NP Subject: unknown & unlucky
Hello
It is perfectly okay to try since you are 28. keep your weight low, reduce more fat things to eat...& if possible go for walk...
i know's it hard, because i don't go to walk & too hard when there is no street road...
i hope this helps
& yes calm & less stressful...
take care
Best of luck
2004-11-02
#8
Name: unknown & unlucky Subject: getting pregnant
thank u everyone for helping me. I am keeping myself calm and busy so that i wont be stressed. Next thing i want to ask since this is my first pregancy and already i am 28 3/4 years old is it ok fo rmy age and trying since 1year
help me
2004-11-25
#9
Name: unknown & unlucky Subject: need help and advise
Hi as i said in mail on 24th i didn't get any reply. Today on 25th I took home pregnancy test in the early morning first urine it showed negative. i am getting little spottings or u can i can see blood in my mucus when i pass urine. I dont know what to do. I cried whole day tilll afternoon. Why is it happening with me only. Its almost more than year and i dont know what to do. Since its holidays only on monday i have to go to adoctor. Before that anyone can reply back as what i need to ask the doctor or so. Any special questions. Please help.
thanks. I lok forward to you NP
2004-11-24
#10
Name: unknown Subject: need help and advise
hi NP
First of all thanks for all the help. As u know from my previous update Everything all my case. Now this month i dont know i missed my periods AGAIN. This time i need to get my periods on 20th as per the 28 day cycle. i know its only 4 days but i am feeling very bloated up and sometimes too hungry and most of the time i feel somekind of uneasiness on my right side of abdomen or tummy. I was thinking since it may be gas alos as i am eating too much these days. A LOT.... i dont feel nausea or vomitting or tired. Hmmm may be sometime tired, but this pain is there. I thought if ata lli dont see any symptoms of my missing periodsa and not preganat once for all i go and get checked up. But i want to take the apointment so when i called the recep told that pls take a homepregnancy test and then u can schedule. But i forgot to tell the syptoms of my pain.
So my question is after how many days u can take a pregnancy home test. I been gone thru this process so many times. i dont want have again the same feeling NEGATIVE.
help me as quickly as possible.
2004-10-31
#11
Name: NP Subject: Unkown&unlucky
Hello,
don't be panic, it is however important not to be panic during this stages.
& i would advise you not to think like today is my 12th day & 15th day & things like that, that would impact on your body
try to stay calm, & while haveing intercourse, take your mind off those things. & yes,to get pregnant, one must need to keep track of there periods. I know it's being frustrated tha, you are trying to conceive, but you cann't.....if your cycle comess late, then have intercousre for a week, atleast alternate days, & don't matter if it's night.
i hope this helps
bye
take care, don't be panic
try that for a month of ur cycle, if you cann't go to doctor, get some test or trying testing from EPT
good luck
2004-10-27
#12
Name: Rose Subject: To unknown, unlucky...
Hi,
My case was exactly like you. But now I am a mom. Since it is one yr of trying for kids, why don't you consult a infertility specilist.
My story: I had a irregular periods, i took 5 clomid cycles including 3 IUIs, and one IVF, but no success. All my blood tests are perfect, no obnormalities. I want to try for a last chance for Laprascopy surgery and I went for that. While doing surgery my doctor found that I have initial stage of Endometriosis (thats why I used to get spotting two days before my periods), the cycle after surgery I took clomid and went for IUI and i got success. If you can try this and stop thinking too much. Yoga and meditation can help your mind and body get relaxed.
2004-10-27
#13
Name: NP Subject: Unkown & unlucky
hello
Well i am saying this again....don't panic, no need to be crying
I know it feels weird when your freind circle has kids, but...
well i didn't understand that are you pregnant or are you worried that your cycle is late & you are not able to be pregnant.....
let me know about that, may be i can help
sorry, i didn't understand & i am in hurry.....but yes i'll through your message again & right down that are you worried about your periods? & if you don't mind telling on which days did you had intercourse, may be that will help me to concludeon some things
Bye
take care
& yes, don't be PANIC....
2004-10-29
#14
Name: unknown & unlucky Subject: trying too long
hi, thanks for ur reply
I am actually worried that i am not getting pregnant. I dont mind about my cycle. i just want to be pregnant for which cycle is imp.
We'll start having intercourse by the 8th day on and off and however the cycle is (like it may come after 2 or 5 days late) we'll have interciourse on 12-14 day regularly. But he prpoblem is we have only at night just once so i really matters or not i dont know. And the thing is when we have too much my hubby says there is no fluid. BAaaaaaaa.......
I dont know hat to do. and all i think is oh we need to have sex now this is my 12th this is my 15th day blah blah.....
so it s making me more mad & crazy. where r telling oh i tried and i am pregnant. I odnt know
pls pls pls
help me
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