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Dear Friends,
Hi need ur help I am a working lady in the Middle east, have a nice husband, and a sweet daughter. I am working as an IT professional timings 8:00 a.m to 5:00 p.m, I had to intailly work because of financial reasons so when my daughter was just 3 months i use to leave her at home but now by the Grace of GOD she is 3years and 9 months old, she speaks very frankly and is a very active child(touch wood). she goes to play school i drop her and my husbAnds pick and drops HER TO HOME WHERE There is a maid from andra she has been looking after my daughter since she was 2months now the problem is whenever i call my daughter at home and by mistake if she keeps the phone ON and the maid thinks its OFF i hear her talk very rough with my daughter in her own lanuage it gives me Goose bumps i have heard this the 2nd or third time because this chance has be itself only 4to5 times, now i want to now what shall i do i soemtimes thinking is monay and career imp. than child that may be i am making her suffer but then my daughter has never ever complained and has always been a happy and normal child.. please suggest Working Mom replied. Hi,

I sympathise with your situation but why does the 1st thing that comes to your mind be that of leaving your job? Why can't you arrange for another maid or even better, put her in a daycare? I'm sure the environment in a godd daycare will be much better and your daughter will learn much more than by staying alone with a maid...

All the Best to you...