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i think i should tell u abt my story so u people may help me in better way,

1....i have use birth control pills abt 9 months by doctor suggestion and now i have leave tht,n trying to concieveing the pregrancy.

2....i have no thyroid prb bt i have bad habit of eating prb.i tried a lot bt i couldnt leave it.coz by nature i m depressed girl.

3 SHOULD I TELL U ALL OF MY STORY?????????
OK LET ME TELLL U.
I M FROM A GOOD N WELL KNOWN FAIMLY.i have 2 brothers n m only one.when i was young frm my childhoood everybody just love me..i was skinny in my childhood and cute child...bt my COUSIN tht also my agefallow bt jelous of me.coz i have more importance in my faimly(v was living in joint faimly saytem)
I WAS SHY NATURALY AND WEAK GIRL..SO SHE ALWAYS PLAY GAME WID ME.she was confident so everywhere she makes fun of me n always tried to fail me...not in my fornt,in my absence she do this.
so i was so alone tht i have no best firend.
i become kind of strange nature..even i got the college bt i have no confidence,,no best firend,,i always cry on small things.my parents love me so much....bt i was so depressed tht i amke the food my friend.i EAT AND ONLY EAT THE JUNK FOODS TO KEEP MYSELF HAPPY..thatsy gain so much weight tht i got the harmoons imbalance prob.....doctors always asked me to lose the weight so tht i can handel this prb...bt everything become more worst for me....my cousin make fun of me weight..as every1 starts to like her....as she was slim n smart...i become more frustrated.
i start to use sleeping pills.
bt time is changed FROM 1 YEAR AGO AFTER SO MANY YEARS.
AS I GOT MERRIED.MY HUSBAND REALLY LOVE ME.M HAPPY BT STILL ALMOST SOME1 SAY ABT MY WEIGHT.
THEN I BECOME FRUSTRATED.
I WANT THE SOLUTION OF THIS PROBLEM.
i have share my story wid u tht u can help me.
now one habbit is still i have..thati always take myself at LOW stage.i m not happy wid myself...
i always lost my estamina in anything..
i CNAT DO ANYTHING.I M HELPLESS.ITS THE MANY YEARS PRB.
NOW I M TRYING TO CONCIEVING BT I M AFFRAID AS I WOULD GET MORE N MORE WEIGHT..WHAT WILL I DO.
CAN I NEVER BE HAPPY WID MYSELF???
CAN I NEVER WEAR WAT I WANT?
WHEN I GET MY CONFIDENCE??????
MY PROB IS THT I CANT STOP MY SELF FROM EATING JUNK,SWEETS,AND TOOM MUCH EATING.THT I USED TO JST GIVE COMFORT TO MY BODY.........
I HAVE SO MUCH ANGER.


I CANT DO TO THE DOCTOR THATSY I CAME TO THIS BOARED THT MAY U PEOPLE CAN HELP ME..I REALLY NED IT.................
TO CONTORL MY HABBIT IF EATING,,
I USED TO HAVE WEIGHT 879,80 KG NORMALLY BT ITS 93,94 NOW.GETTING MORE N MORE..I ONLY CAN DIET FOR ONE DAY ANTHER DAY I BECOME DISHEART..SO

SANDHYA HELP ME
jmshah replied. hi
i can give u jst 2 good advice and it is upto u to follow...
1....join a good english learning cource as ur english is very bad
2....buy a good pair of running shoes and start walking and then graduating to running
some advice which is lso imp which u might not follow....
1..... keep ur mind occupied a empty brain is adevils workshop
2.... get into some job or do something move ur back side and mix with people develop a hobby
3.....dont even think of planning a preg u yourself is having so many complexities a childs burden will make u more happy
and ...HAPPINESS LIES WITHIN ONESELF ..U CHOOSE TO BE HAPPY OR UNHAPPY...
bye and take care
moturam sandya replied. dear samreen, that was some story. Looks like you have more to deal with than any one of us out here. So, here' s what i suggest you do:

1. First, you need the help of a doctor. Immediately look for one. Preferably a psychiatrist as well.

2. Looks like your problem is more in your head than something wrong with you physically. So, a psychiatrist would really be able to do something for you.

3. We are out here for support, but u being out there in UK and us out here in the rest of the world is not going to help you much in terms of physical support. So, enlist the support of friends that you trust around the place you live by.

4. I understand that you had trouble while growing up. But now you are all GROWN UP. Take some responsibility for how you want to be now and for the future b' cos that' s what you have in your control now.

5. Problems or worries for which you cannot come up with a solution are not supposed to come into your head. How your cousin behaved with you while growing up is not going to help you anymore. so, look around you and smell the sunshine and the rain.

6. When you face a problem(about anything), you need to start using your head and think of a solution for it. So, you tell me about what you think might be the solution for your problem might be. I want to hear you talk about it.

7. If you want to continue to think that you are a depressed person, then there is little anyone out here can do for you. So, i strongly urge you to get in touch with a good doctor and start talking to us for any additional support you might need in accomplishing your goals.

8. Kids should be the least of your worries now. You are only 22. You' ve got a lot of life before you that you can plan for kids. First get all the existing problems under check and then continue to have kids.

8. Kids themselves are a big responsibility and my fear is with your situation, you might worsen your condition and theirs if you continue to go ahead and have kids at this stage. So, think about it. I do not mean to discourage you from having kids. But get your house(you mind) in order before you do so.

Think about all i said. You' ve all the time in the world(your young age)to accomplish whatever you want to. If you put your mind to it, you could even become an astraonaut. No jokes. So, utilize your mind and energy properly to accomplish your goals.

Hope it helps.
Sandya