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Foetal Growth Movements:Need advice please
2004-10-29
Name: Ruchi



Hi,

I am in my 32 weeks pregnant and i have a 3 & 1/2 year old daughter. I stay in US and due to some unavoidable circumstance no one from India is coming to help in the time of my delivery and later.

If anyone gone through the same stage please give me some advice as how to manage two without hlep and any advice from any one can be very help ful
for me.

Everyone of my friends saying that its too tough
to manage so i am very much scared .

Please give me advice.

Thanking you,
Ruchi

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2004-11-07
#1
Anonymous Name: purtee
Subject:  hi



Hi Ruchi,
I was also in florida Miami , the day my pregnancy was confirmed I moved to India , on account of the same circumstances.But in this state travel is not advised , why dont u arrange for a mid-wife or a baby sitter
Best of luck
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2004-11-04
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Anonymous Name: chini
Subject:  dont worry



I know of a lot of couples in US who are managing 2 kids without help from India.

They have someone come and cook for them (if you have any old Indian lady near by) You have to shell out money, but its worth it. You need to give ads or search on Indian websites.

Since giving a bath is not a big deal in USA, that problem is solved. You can request in the hospital (the nurse) to give you some tips. You can ask your hubby to take leave, work from home till such time you are comfortable.

If possible send your daughter to a creche for some time, or a full day school like a Montessori etc. Everybody has to sacrifice and adjust.

Best of luck
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