Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Dear wannabparents,Archie
Thanks so much for your reply. I really really dp appreciate it but I am going through just so much turmoil in my mind. Last night after 39 days my period came. Just simply sucks.....I cried my heart out, got mad at my hubby for no fault of his, RSVPed NO to a baby shower just going nuts here. I am 26 years old 27 in 3 mths and I know I am still very young and only been rtying for 3 mths then why am I loosing hope so soon. Why do I keep feeling that this will never happen.....I have been healthy all my life and had a very smooth life but this aspect of my life seems so helpless. Sorry If I am bringing you all down. You all are so good in answerng Qs and support. My hubby is so supportive and I am really gonna try & relax this time....hopefully
Archie
I still don't understand, if my LH surge was detected on CD15 and CD16 why did I have my period on CD39. Also my BBT did not go up with a good spike until CD 25 or so. Is it possible to have a LH surge and then a delayed Ovulation. I was so depressed that I called in sick at work today.....I really need to handle this better
Thanks for listening


Archie replied. Dear hopetobmom,
If LH was detected on CD15 then you should be testing on CD30, no matter what.
If you follow BBT and see temp rise on CD25 then you expect period around CD39.

You may have some hormonal imbalance that led to delayed ovulation even after LH surge.

The most important is believe in yourslef and have positive attitude. Relenquishness won't lead to successful path. Three or four months is not time to get worried about conceiving. Give time about 1 year and then start worrying.

Archie