Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

hi!! all
been married for nearly 2yrs, still not consumated marriage, everything is perfect b'w us, all goes well but at the end of final intercourse it does not work out,i get so much pain while h'e trying to insert tht i stop him with all my force..tht's the biggest tension .. Ankita replied. Thnx for ur reply. will try the method & visit a gynac asap. will keep u posted. king uncle replied. Dear yellowrose,
Do you get tense when the act of inserting is to take place.If yes then you have to relax yourself and maintain your level of excitement.Just to tell you the woman's vagina is flexible enough to accomodate a 5 kg baby.
Try following steps:-
i)Lie down on bed in relaxed stage.Put ky jelly in your index finger and insert slowly into the vagina.Carry out this excercise for the time till it is not painful.
ii)Do the above with two and three fingers till there is little or no pain.
iii)Now let your husband do the same withth two and three fingers.Deep insertion.
iv)He should then start to and fro motion with fingers inside.When you experience no pain then you are ready for the act.Use a lubricant initially and be at it.
Consult a gyne for any other vaginal problem.
Best wishes Archie replied. Dear yellowrose_4,

It's the time to intervene your gynecologist.

He/she will investigate problem. If that's to do with size will be prescribed some gelly to make it easier for you. If that's to do with internal trouble will be handled with hormonal therapy or chemotherapy.
Archie