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we have been married 4 years back and trying to concieve with out success i consulted the gynacologist she says i fear during intercouse and i am not allowing my hubby freely i do not know why it is happening i enjoy foreplay but at the time of intercouse i feel i am having pain with the hymen my doctor has conducted scanning test and everything was fine as it was my ovulation dates she said it was good but the only problem is i fear please advice me and to ur knowledge i was innocent about the intercouse and other things before marriage only my husband explained me all this things. Archie replied. Dear Arch,
A solitary remedy to your problem is to sway your fears and enjoy intimacy.
Think that all is for giving a new life.
Co-operate him and that's the only solution. It's fine to be ignorant before marriage and glad that you enjoy some part of sex. It should be fine for you to enjoy intercourse as well. It's matter of time in some girls to get adjusted with, you have been married for 4 years and therefore there should be no reason to have any fears about sex.

Try to enjoy and give us a good news.
Archie