Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

hi! im new here and find it very interesting.i wanna tell my story and your response is greatly appreciated. my husband and i decided to start a family. we're trying for 3 months w/o success.im regular i mean every month i have my menstruation but with irregualr days. example i on month of march 31 day cycle, april im 33 day cycle, may 28 day cycle. how will i know if im ovulating with this cycle and when is the best/peak to have sex. i hope someone can help me. tnx & have a nice day! Archie replied. Dear Audrey,
Listen ovulation is utmost important as all conception rotates around this solitary process.
Given irregular cycles makes it difficult to predict when you can ovulate.
Why not BBT, CM and even use of OPK?

If you don't want to begin reading and going through BBT or CM and feels not expert doing, make use of OPK.

Buy a OPK- Ovulation Prediction Kit and start using from CD10 on around mid day.
OPK test will show equal intensity two purple lines means a strong positive test and better LH surge. Now if your OPK explain that from this point ovulation may take place in 24-48 hours then planing intercourse once a 12-16 hours or once a 24 hours is best.
To enhance chances stay out of intercourse till you find LH surge by OPK.

By the way, 3 months is not sufficient time for ttc. It's whoe complicated process. At each cycle you have a chance of ovulation and at each ovulation only 20% chances of conception. It's possible to have period but no ovulation, but each ovulation must follow periods.

Good luck
Archie