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Role of in-laws:hi vd and all

2005-02-10

Name: a friend hi vd...am new at this bord and just was reading your messege..it is so inspiring.
as i m expecting my first child and due to visa related problem..no one is coming form india as i m in us right now..earlier i was bit tensed( but somehow i made up my mind too)but now am feeling so relaxed...that its not so tough, taking care of baby being alone(me and my hubby)
thanks a lot..do keep posting messeges...am really impresed by you...keep p osting meseges like this..thanks friend

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2005-02-11

Name: augustborn
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Congrats

Congrats...whens the baby due :)
Wishing you a safe delivery...

Absolutely agree with VD. Earlier, I too used to think that it would be unthinkable to go through the process without help but after reading how VD managed everything, I am sure it can be done.

Good Luck!

2005-02-11

Name: vd
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Hi a friend

First of all congratulations to would be mom.

Please dont be tense. It is a good time enjoy. Make your doctor your best friend which i think is important(although i was in a french country at that time, and was difficult) Please have your doubts cleared with him.

And keep everything ready, always pack up your bag, phone numbers - doctor and taxi handy. Even if you are alone and need to go, pick your bag and take a taxi.

Above all have faith in God. He will take care of you. I always tell my friends- children are born everywhere in this world, please don't be so tense. We have good facilities now, so ease out.

Child will sleep for most of the time. You can call a helper or nurse to give bath to baby if you are scared initially.

It is less stressful alone as there are no visitors popping up now and then.And you can literally sleep your day off.

Read books- specially- What to expect when you are expecting. And what to Expect in first year. It has answers for 90% of your questions although no pictures.

Again be positive dear and talk to your child.

god bless

2005-02-11

Name: a friend
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thanku

hi vd thanks a lot..gr88 to hear for your side..thanks for these suggestion.
yes am reading these days what to expect when you are expecting.. will soon start the other one well this bord is helping me a lot..chalo phir be i n touch..bye for now ...a friemd

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