Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Hello I got pregnant after six months of our marr but that was an unplanned preg and we were not prepared for it so we opted for an abortion, but now after 1.5 yrs of our marr we are eager to have a baby and trying since last two months.my periods used to be irregular but after abortion for 6 mths they were regular now again it has becum irregular,since last two months my periods gets delayed and we expect to have it positive but my periods start also i do have cramping in mylower abdomen. I cant understand y i am facing all this can some1 help me...pls. asu replied. hi jo,
May i request you not to hurt BM' s feelings.Having a baby is something which has to be done whole heartedly,without a mental block.For some reason, she has terminated her baby,cause she din want the kid.whats wrong with this?termination is far better than delivering a kid which was unwanted and u always have the risk of a stigma attached to bringing up a kid which may lead to a unhappy parenthood and childhood.
Have a kid only if u are fully prepared for it and feel really happy to have the kid.Having said this, only thing, that BM has to learn, is that she could have been a lil carefull.but then past is past and its irreversible, and so care has to be taken ,note to repeat it again.And pls dont bring forth the crap regarding paap and punya.Its upto the individual to decide.Give proper suggestion to her mail and pls dont let off any unsolicited crap and hurt ppl even more.

ASU rose replied. dear bm,
put ur full faith in god.he will forgive ur mistake and bless u.now pls consult gyn asap.how did u do abortion medical or by other means ,i mean was this legally done?pls chk to see if everything ok and proceed ,ONLY IF UR READY FOR IT Akshaya replied. Human beings are prone to error and so is your case. I have no clue on your question. Consult a gyno. All the very best for you to have a cute and healthy baby. jo replied. aren' t you ashamed to have had an abortion. don' t you realize its killing an viable fetus which will develop into an adult? I hope people like you who abort never have a child again so that you realize the value of life.