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Name: Seetha

Hi,
I need some one advice here. i have married in the year 2009.its been two years now.My inlaws lives in different city. My husband my self living separately after marriage due to jobchange.we both working in MNC' s. i am earning decent salary Problem is my mother in law ,she is possesive on her son. She rings up phone every day speaks 1 hr about unnecessary topics like gossips about her relatives. I didn' t like such type of talks. She loves my husband too much. when my husband and me in bedroom she knocks door and comes inside and do chat with him for some hours. she is big chatter box. she never accomdates my parents to my home. we recently bought a house in my home town. i invited my parents for function for 3 days. she didnt given good hospitality to them she ill treated them not offered food and made them to sleep in floor not offered room for sleep. my parents are so kind and old people came back to chennai with tears. My sisterin law simply abused me with bad words and showed groom infront of my face in function because i didnt help her at house hold work.they often torchers me with giving advices. My father in law nowadays interfers in our financial deals . he checks his credit card statement.why so much expenses you made this month? they are interferring in all maters. i dont have child still. they always raise this issue whenever we get together. my husband is immatured person who is influenced by his parents. so many times i asked my husband to be independent. he still behaves like kid infront his parents. he wont talk much if his parents are around.my parents are financially poor. they dont have money to survive , My sister earns little and supporting my family. i often helps them by providing short funds from my savings.my mother in law always talks about money, she is money wandering person. she dint like me from the day i got married with his son. i look fat and increased few kilos after marriage due to harmonal imbalance. i am taking treatment.she often torchers me telling you look fat and eat less giving advices.she told his son looks younger than me and she had a thought to bring beautiful DIl to her home. she is acting like loving and caring mother to his son. She recently gave some money to husband to get more affection.please provide me good idea to deal this lady.

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