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Hi Ladies,

I posted my problem earlier in April.

Now the worst thing is that my Sil is expecting. this has just been discovered by her.Its accidental. My bro' s relationship is on the verge of divorce because of tantrums SIL is been throwing...n now this problem.
My bro. doesn' t want this baby in such bad complicated circumstances.He thinks tha baby will have a bad effect of SIl' s behaviour. She is not too strong physically also.SIL is also confused as she too knows that there relaionship is going thru a bad phase but still wants to carry on wid this pregnancy.

Pls suggest wheher its ok to have a baby when a person is no sure of relationship and having a unhealthy relationship.

I think this can affect baby' s mental and physical health while it is in womb. and no sure what will happen when it will be born. I know for sure that my SIL will never improve. She has promised by bro several tims that she will improve her behaviour bu in past 5-6 months we have not seen a single sign of improvement. PP replied. Hi Ria
I dont know in detail about the tiffs that couple is having.
But just think for a moment that if they can have a sex inbetween then the situation is not so worse that u put it on extreme decisions
See many a times some behaviour is so ridiculous that we felt that just stop it here.
But this not a practicle approach.
May be ur SIL and bro get changed after having a baby.
Rather then compelling her to abort, why dont u guys lookafter her......may be this will bring a change in her.
And believe me........being a mother is actualy a women' s second birth, it brings lot of changes in her.........today u r worried for ur brother' s broking marriage ,it may not be in future once their baby will come.

I hope this help u........
for any other specific queries plz msg me.

And just take care of ur SIL.....that baby' s life is in mother' s hand....be positive,everything will change after that baby' s bith.

Regards
PP