Name: prerna
there is a friend of mine who is quite sum years elder than me.. all the time he is worried n tensed.. this disturbs me a lot.. he doesnt shares them wid nyone..these day he has started getting upset more frequently..he says m one his very gud frnz but its quite unbelievable for me as he has stopped telling me almost everything these days..everytime he gives a same xcuse that he doesnt want me to get disturbed wid his problems coz of my upcoming xams..these days i dunno y i m feeling distance being created in our friendship from his side..we hav discussed this bt he says m mad thinking al this crap..
he has been my best friend n he helped in my worst times..i cant even imagine of ending our friendship ever..he is a very rude n short tempered kind of person..no problem wid his this attitude..even though sumtimes it hurts when he says rude things i try to ignore but i cant ignore him whn he is upset or sumthing..according to me he is an introvert kind of person who doesnt opens up wid others when it comes to his personal problems..till now he shared almost his every problem but nw he has stopped telling nything..i feel all this is coz once he asked for sum money wich he needed badly n i cudnt arrange for it on time..he needed it for his studies.. he is very concerned bout it n doesnt lyk ny obstacle in it..
one more incident..i took a decision widout discussing it wid him n earlier we had planned sumthing else for that..
i feel i have failed as a friend.. i have never been able to help in his times of crisis.. i feel guilty.. i want to make a confession to him but i noe it will be of no use.. many times he has talked bout fair weather friend n unfaithful friends..but alwayz dismissed the topic whenever i wanted to discuss..
IS HE GIVING ANY HINTS OR SUMTHING??
or m i making a fuss out of nothing..
ppl please help i cant see him tensed n upset all the time.. plz do suggest sum ways to cheer him up...
please reply soon m not able to concentrate properly on nything.. its really distrbing..
thanx for replying in advance..