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i was working before my marriage i have a son 3 1/2 yrs old. my hubby goes early morning and comes home very late due to his work pressure. I don't know how to kill time. If I ask him to come early he tells abt his work pressure which he has, i trust him on that, he really has to work hard but i have a feeling that in front of his job he does not care for his family. It only ends up into an argument if I ask him to get back early. He has a dominating boss over him. Please suggest. How do I make him understand. I am a home maker. He can't change his job as his industry requires extra effort no matter which company he works for. I feel depressed and dejected. Please give sincere advice. Archie replied. Hi Ananya,

I can understand how you must feel.

Reading your situation sounds it's little complicated as you say you understand work pressure on him yet want him to understand you.

True that passing time is little difficult for you. Can not you afford to indulge in some social activity. Your Son must be great source to keep you occupied at the same time.

Talk to your husband when he has spare time. It will be easy to convince him that work and family must be weighed equally and not in a bias manner. You both, you and your son deserve his attention. Talk to your husband how it's important for him to pay attention to son and spend time with you both as much as he can.

Hopefully it will work out better, may be not just the way you want to, certainly in much better shape.

Good luck
Archie