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hi,someone pls help me on this problem.my husband and i are married for 10 months now but we still havent been able to \";do it\"; so far.it is not like we havent tried,we did but somehow it hasnt been 'successful'.it may partly be my fault, because during the early nights of our marriage i never allowed him to come near me,later after 3-4 months when i did i still was very nervous and wouldnt allow him to be \";too intimate\";.and now though i am much more free and less nervous we still havent been 'successful'.this is causing major problems in our relationship.i dont know if it is my fault or what i should do about it?my friend told me that if we cant \";do it\"; within the first yr we can never \";do it\";.is that true??
please someone help me in this as i desperately want to have kids. Ashu replied. Hi
Don't worry Dear Just relax.
Just relax & create the mood for it, Just don't planout this, let Ur husband foreplay & then just let it happen & U'll see the result.
Im suggesting this I faced the same with my wife. Pl. don't get into any quarrel on this issue.
Take Care, get Back with results
Ashu