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Trying since long:Im going mad with anxiety.....

2007-08-14

Name: Confused Hi there,
Im 6weeks 4 days pregnant today. My LMP was 28th June.But it still isnt a good news for us.....After 6 months of ttc,we came to know tht i was carrying on the 3rd of aug. My Hcg levels on 3rd were 332.3,(which were low,as per the normal levels) and then the doc suggested anthr test on 7th aug.This time the levels turned out to be 439.9 .
Not sensing it as a good sign I was sent for an u/s on 8th aug and the report said \" products of conception seen in uterine cavity\" . Now I am asked to wait till 18th aug for the next series of tests. Im so worried and am feeling anxious to death!!! Dunno if my little one is living inside me or not....I dunno to be happy that we' re pregnant or be sad tht i might just lose my baby...Also,for last 3-4 days i am feeling no symptoms of pregnancy.No fatigue,no sleepiness,no food craving.....
Can someone tell me wats happening.....I will really be glad...
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Hi there,
Im 6weeks 4 days pregnant today. My LMP was 28th June.But it still isnt a good news for us.....After 6 months of ttc,we came to know tht i was carrying on the 3rd of aug. My Hcg levels on 3rd were 332.3,(which were low,as per the normal levels) and then the doc suggested anthr test on 7th aug.This time the levels turned out to be 439.9 .
Not sensing it as a good sign I was sent for an u/s on 8th aug and the report said \" products of conception seen in uterine cavity\" . Now I am asked to wait till 18th aug for the next series of tests. Im so worried and am feeling anxious to death!!! Dunno if my little one is living inside me or not....I dunno to be happy that we' re pregnant or be sad tht i might just lose my baby...Also,for last 3-4 days i am feeling no symptoms of pregnancy.No fatigue,no sleepiness,no food craving.....
Can someone tell me wats happening.....I will really be glad...
Thanks for reading my post. sudha replied. hi dear
yes its really heart rending to loose ur 1st child no one else can understand that ... may god give u the power to be strong
well it is said any misscarriage before the 12 weeks usually happens because the foetus has some abnormality its natures way of preventing furthur complication
how are you now take complete rest and dont plan another preg in haste grieve out fully and prepare yourself taht you will be able to handle 1 more preg emotionlayy and physically ,though women who has had a miscarriage can go ahead lots of healty pregnecy but that impending fear and naive innosense which is gone can never return
so support ur spouse communicate and be positive
love and blessing
sudha sudha replied. hi there,
congrats that u r preg and is this urs 1st preg??? dont worry unnecesarily as stress is bad ..well it happens in some women taht hcg levels are low and the moment the preg is confirmed they start all the prec measures and it s just 6 weeks so jsl relax and wait what the doc says...
now if u ask why this is happening then no one has the answers there are som ephenomena which cannot be answered even by medical science but it happens... so wait for ur next scan and all will be fine...
beleive me a friend of mine she had the same prb and the heart beat was even detected as late as 20 weeks!!so dont loose heart ans be patient...
god bless u and do let me know what happened
sudha

2007-08-19

Name: sudha
Subject:

hi dear
yes its really heart rending to loose ur 1st child no one else can understand that ... may god give u the power to be strong
well it is said any misscarriage before the 12 weeks usually happens because the foetus has some abnormality its natures way of preventing furthur complication
how are you now take complete rest and dont plan another preg in haste grieve out fully and prepare yourself taht you will be able to handle 1 more preg emotionlayy and physically ,though women who has had a miscarriage can go ahead lots of healty pregnecy but that impending fear and naive innosense which is gone can never return
so support ur spouse communicate and be positive
love and blessing
sudha

2007-08-16

Name: sudha
Subject:

hi there,
congrats that u r preg and is this urs 1st preg??? dont worry unnecesarily as stress is bad ..well it happens in some women taht hcg levels are low and the moment the preg is confirmed they start all the prec measures and it s just 6 weeks so jsl relax and wait what the doc says...
now if u ask why this is happening then no one has the answers there are som ephenomena which cannot be answered even by medical science but it happens... so wait for ur next scan and all will be fine...
beleive me a friend of mine she had the same prb and the heart beat was even detected as late as 20 weeks!!so dont loose heart ans be patient...
god bless u and do let me know what happened
sudha

2007-08-18

Name: sad
Subject:

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hi sudha,
ive been a little sad since yesterday...got my reports and they weren´ t gr8. my hcg levels went upto 850 from 439.9 in a span of 10 days.and also,u/s showed a not so clear gestational sac. i have completed 7 weeks already as per my LMP.so my doc said its not a good sign at all.also,i started spotting and it turned into heavy bleedin last night with quite a bit of cramping.i guess i can see wats coming in the next few days. so thts how its been for me.
feels sad to lose my first baby.but i cudnt do much abt it.so just trying not to get too depressed.
how abt u?are u also ttc??
thnx a ton for being there...

2007-08-18

Name: sudha
Subject:

hi dear
did u get ur usg done ??what is the report ???
dont worry and stress yourself
let me know and god bless u
sudha

2007-08-18

Name: sudha
Subject:

hi dear
did u get ur usg done ??what is the report ???
dont worry and stress yourself
let me know
sudha

2007-08-16

Name: confused
Subject:

thnx sudha

hi sudha,
thnx a ton for ur reply. yeah this is my first preg...im due for a scan tomm morn and will get the reports tomm evening.just keeping fingers crossed.
thnx again :)

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