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Am I bindaas? I and my family dont have the habit of cribbing every time. We dont go around always telling our problems. Like, i got married late, but neither me nor my parents showed it to anybody or cried for not getting married soon. Since I am 31 now, I dont have a baby, but I am happy with what I have, and know that if I am fortunate to have a baby of my own I will surely have or I am ready to adopt. But my husbands family are always cribbing, like his sister has not married, he does not have a father, he does not have a particular type of job, or does not have good relatives. They always keep comparing me, my family and relatives with theirs and say \";Oh you dont have any problems\";. Well I have lot of unmarried cousins, but when there is a wedding of a very younger cousin, we all gather and try to enjoy. My husband and inlaws always try their best to gain sympathy and get all their work done by whining. I find my inlaws behaviour very dramatic and dont feel like sympathising with them. And seeing this attitude of mine, my husband calls me bindaas. shobha replied. hi there,I was exactly in your situation a few months ago, then I learnt just to ingnore my in laws cribbing, though initially I did try to be sympathetic myself,but later I kept to myself and I was also called bindaas, but now they have learnt to face the facts, may be only God put in some thought into them.Plz don't change your views for them and u continue to live life from your point of views.
Let Good luck and peace prevail for you.