Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

hi all.i used to be a regular here but went into deep depression for 2-3 months.........married for 10 years and trying and trying for the baby is all i' ve done for all those years.........faced harsh comments,insensitive people........it got to me finally........i went into a shell and one day i realised that my getting depressed is making those people happy and giving them sadistic pleasure and just doing me and my husband harm..........so i' ve decided to put my life on track and start the process again with positive appraoch again .I' m going for ICSI this month and need all ur support..........please pray for me.
AND........for those who are in depression......ur depression only harms u and u alone....nobody else.......infact people who are responsible for depressing u,only get pleasure out of it............therefore.....DONT GIVE THEM THAT PLEASURE AND BE STRONG.....do it for urself and the poeple who love u...........ALL OF US WOULD BE WINNERS IN THE END..........i PROMISE EVERYONE THAT..take care all of u ........best wishes.lots of love and hugs. Shruti replied. Hi....u r exactly correct...my cousin was married since 10 yrs....she did all the treatments and even did lots of prayers to god....and her prayers had paid off...she delivered baby girl last april....so alwaz be positive...eveyone' s prayer is paid off...

dont let others make u depressed....

all the best n take care...
Sanjana replied. You are so true.Specially if you are in india, you will see this nature.
I am also trying since 8.5 yrs and married for 10 yrs.I started doing meditation 2 yrs back.and believe me it has saved my life.It is like talking to god.Some previous life karma' s we have go go through, nobody can avoid it, but make that path easier meditation is only way.Anyways I thought sharing with you since it has helped me alot.
I will be going for ivf next month.Good luck with your IUI treatment.

Lots of love
Sanjana