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I dont know what happened to our life.It was such a good one.. still he buys whatever i says..deos cooling whenever I am tired and even weekends..somedays even after coming from work,he cooks..its rare ,i know..he loves our kid so much and takes care of family ...but for past 8 months ,he is not interested to have sex..even when i initiate..he says some reasons like,tomorrow have to go for work early,football goin on,too tired,hand or leg pain....etc...what does this all mean..?? what must be the exact problem..we talked over it many a times but he never said anything was wrong....what should i do..one day i just bursted out and shouted at him ...i felt lik if i keep all these to myslef i will go mad....what should i do....am so depressed ...i scream at my kid...poor thing..he cries..i too cry...i love both of them very much..they r my life...please help..!!! brande replied. u dont have to be depressed. i know its quite serious problem but dont forget that depression is very bad n can cause u illness too.. here r few simple things tat u could do.. first, u want to know wat is ur husband' s prob rite? he wont tell u, coz its their nature to not telling their prob with us. so u gotta find sum initiative to find those out urself,got it? then, in case u worry that he is losing his interest in u bcoz of another women(50% chances are), u have to find this out urself too. maybe by hiring a PI or on ur own. make sure u know his activities, n where he is at everytime. third, dont yell or scream at him- no one can tolerate that attitude. finally, i know u cant just sit around peacefully with all these prob around u but just keep urself calm n practise sum meditation early morning whenever u can catch the time,coz it gives u clear mind to do anything,n control ur anger..n tats all.. n dun 4get 2 keep urself happy! brande replied. u dont have to be depressed. i know its quite serious problem but dont forget that depression is very bad n can cause u illness too.. here r few simple things tat u could do.. first, u want to know wat is ur husband' s prob rite? he wont tell u, coz its their nature to not telling their prob with us. so u gotta find sum initiative to find those out urself,got it? then, in case u worry that he is losing his interest in u bcoz of another women(50% chances are), u have to find this out urself too. maybe by hiring a PI or on ur own. make sure u know his activities, n where he is at everytime. third, dont yell or scream at him- no one can tolerate that attitude. finally, i know u cant just sit around peacefully with all these prob around u but just keep urself calm n practise sum meditation early morning whenever u can catch the time,coz it gives u clear mind to do anything,n control ur anger..n tats all.. n dun 4get 2 keep urself happy! Ecstasy replied. First of all....keep cool and hope for the best.

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