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Shy Kids:Please give me your opinions
2003-05-14
Name: 2ndTimeMommy



Hi everyone,
I am expecting my second child now who will be joining us soon. I have a girl (3 yrs) at home and I am sure she is going to be a wonderful BIG Sis when the baby comes out!
My question is, When I buy things like the Baby record book , Should I be buying one which looks exactly like the one I bought for my older one OR Can I buy if I find a better one with more nice features etc..

My worry is, if I get a good one, will that make her feel bad when she grows up and understands the difference. Needless to say when I bought for her I bought the best one available at Market at that time. Now I see new features were added to it and it's even better than what I have.

Please, throw me your suggestions/opinions on this, especially all those Mommies with 2 kids. All advice/thoughts would be appreciated!. Thanks in advance!
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2003-06-13
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Anonymous Name: aparanji
Subject:  love them both equally.



hi 2ndtimemommy
From my experience,all I have to say is even with the second baby never ever forget to give more than equal attention to your first kid during the first few months.That is the most important thing to keep in mind.Never make the first child feel neglected.Make sure you give her your love every moment even with the baby.Never discipline her holding the baby in ur hands.If u have to discipline her/him do it without the baby present.I have done that mistake several times and I am seeing some bad results.My daughter loves her sister very much but she had reacted physiologically.Its too long to explain though.
Anyway...good luck with both the children.
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