Have you been trying to get pregnant without success? Science has made rapid advance and there are many options out there for you to consider. Find out if other members have used alternative means to get pregnant, and what the experience meant to them.
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Have you been trying to get pregnant without success? Science has made rapid advance and there are many options out there for you to consider. Find out if other members have used alternative means to get pregnant, and what the experience meant to them.
emly replied. Hi, hope you feel good. Majority of women get pregnant but cannot become a mother due to MC. MC is the main reason behind infertility. Infertility becomes more popular day by day. Every woman deserves to become a mother. But due to infertility, it's not possible. My friend also an infertile. The main reason for her infertility was her 3 MC. But Thanks to fertility clinics. Now she has a cute daughter from surrogacy. Surrogacy is the best option for an infertile couple. However, IVF is the other treatment for infertility. But surrogacy is safer than other treatments.
seeta_ajay replied. Hey, How are you? I hope everything was fine for you. I hope that your child is now with you. Surrogacy is a beautiful process. It has helped many infertile women. I don't know why it is the most controversial topic in India. We Indians can't say that we have a baby through surrogacy. Our society is not accepting this. But we have 8toaware all people. It completes our families. There should be awareness sessions about surrogacy. People will accept it gradually. Hope for the best. Stay strong all.
mumtaz_jahan replied. Hey , hope you are doing well. I loved your story. You are such a strong lady. It is such a brave step to try again and again. Your husband is a gem of a person. I am so happy that you finally made it. As they say all is well if it ends well. As for your question. In my life my Deaerest Hubby is my support system.I had conceived twice but had to abort my child both times. Because it was an ectopic pregnancy. I had faced severe depression afterwards. I had no hope left. I started ignoring friends and family. But my husband was by my side in that difficult time. He handled my mood swings and helped me overcome my depression.
Lily replied. Hey, hope you are doing well. thank you so much for posting this. Infertility is such a curse. I have been facing it since so long. It was so hard for me to deal with it and survive it. but i survived anyway. I had a miscarriage 8 years back. And i couldn't conceive at all after that. Infertility has no as such cause. I don;t know why this happened with me. I am considering surrogacy these days for my opt. I have been researching on it a lot. I am preparing my mind. As this is the last time i am going to try for my baby. and if i fail i will quit everything. So making a decision is hard. I hope i make a right choice. And it works for me also. Need wishes and prayers.
Espa replied. Infertility is very hard to live with. I am infertile because of hysterectomy cancer. Surrogacy is ban in Japan. So we moved to Europe to find surrogacy related clinics. We consulted many clinics in Europe. Than we came to know about a good clinic.
We found a very good clinic.
Now we are having twins with the help of this clinic.The clinic gave us a very good surrogate mom.With the help of that mom we are having our two twin daughters.
We are so excited and happy.
LokiePoo replied. I had 3 miscarriages losses. This kind of losses is very hard to be faced. I tried very hard to be pregnant but there was no luck with it. I tried again and again. Finally, i was pregnant for the first time. I was very happy and then all happiness went away with a miscarriage. Than again i was pregnant for 2 more times. But again both pregnancies resulted in miscarriages. My first marriage ended badly and i was totally heartbroken. Than i met another man and he was very kind and good. I am going to marry him soon. Now i am 43 years old. I told him every complication regarding my infertility. He said he is happy with me. I have asked him that we will go for infertility treatment to have a baby. He has agreed for it. I am so happy. I am going to start a new life soon.
emly replied. TTC is a hard thing to handle. I can understand the pain of infertility or unable to conceive. Women who are suffering from these issues shouldn't lose hope. losing hope is not the solution to the problem. There is always a solution to every problem and a treatment for every disease. I was TTC for 4 years. I don't even want to remember my time of difficulties. It was really bad. But science is very advanced now. Now I am a mother of two. I wish no women have to go through this. Good luck everyone.
emly replied. Hi, I don't have my personal experience of IVF. But my friend had experienced IVF. She suffering from infertility due to PCOS. It's very hard to cope up with this. Then she chose a good fertility clinic for her treatment. Now she has a cute boy. The doctor also gave her the strick instructions after IVF like took healthy food take rest and do the slow walk. These are instructions were very profitable for her. I read a lot of experiences about fertility treatment at this forum. That is very profitable for us.
DiviyaSalana replied. Hello everyone! How are you all holding up here? Well, just joined the forum. So, yeah! Anyway! I'm a PCOS patient. So, conceiving naturally isn't possible for me. Looking for assisted procedures. But, still trying my best to conceive smh. Confused eventually! Anyway! Let me know who is in the same boat as mine. xx :)
boone replied. yeah, she is right. I am new here. Actually not a new at all. Once I visited this forum. I couldn’t find miscarriages post. That’s why I didn’t make any post regarding this. I just wanted to ask a question regarding miscarriage. But I am happy to see this topic on your forum. It has been seen that miscarriages affect a woman’s life so complicated and full of arguments. A woman can’t think again to conceive naturally. She just lost hope. my sister experienced this. We have tried a lot to bring her back to life. Young generation right after their marriage face these conditions on a high level. They don’t take care of the precautions prescribed by their doctors.
Anjali replied. Hey, there. How are you? I hope you're alright. I read your story. It was really nice. It was also super motivating. And, very very inspirational. I'd like to share my story of surrogacy, too. I was declared infertile. And after losing all hope, I came across a surrogacy. It was a life saver! For the treatment, I went abroad. It was the best decision that I made. I enjoyed a bit of luck and it went really smoothly. A year on, now, I have a beautiful baby boy!
Espa replied. Many people are talking about surrogacy here. I thought i should also share my experience with surrogacy with you people here.
I am from Japan and was happily married. I had hysterectomy cancer from early stage. I went for the treatment and i was cancer free. But this resulted in lifetime infertility. First 6 years of our marriage passed on happily roaming around the world. After 6 years we both felt the need of our children. But we both knew that i am infertile. So my husband decided that we will go through surrogacy to have a baby. Japan has banned the surrogacy. My husband contacted a number of clinics from around the globe. Than we moved to Europe. In Europe we stayed for 4 months. But we didn't found a satisfying clinic. After 4 months we moved. There are many clinics regarding surrogacy. We picked a good clinic. The clinic started our process soon and all things went well. The clinic found a good surrogate for us. Now the surrogate is pregnant with our twin daughters. The clinic and the surrogate made our dream come true of having a baby. If someone is looking for some good clinics for surrogacy. You should surely go for it.
Rowena02 replied. Hey there! Infertility becomes a common issue nowadays. It is very hard faced infertility. Children are a blessing. Everyone has a wish of being a parent. I am also an infertile lady. I was diagnosed with PCOS soon after marriage. I had been TTC since my marriage with no luck. I didn't conceive even a once. I was fed up with the things. Then I came to know about surrogacy. I had made a search on it and different forums for information about surrogacy. Finally, I opted for surrogacy. It proved like a miracle to me. I had blessed with a baby boy through surrogacy. I wish everyone the best of luck.
MORI replied. Hey. How are you? I hope you will be fine. I am so sorry. I know this really hurts. Many women are facing it. I know the pain. Infertility is never easy. I have seen my friend in such pain. She wanted to be a mother. She faced it for 7 years. She struggled so much. She was finally blessed with a baby now. I am so happy for her. hope you will be blessed too.
Monika replied. Hey, I am good I hope so are you. Infertility is a really difficult journey to be on. When I was first diagnosed with it I thought my world had come to an end. I got married about 7 years ago. My husband and I at that time had decided that we would start TTC after a year. When we did TTC things weren't working out. However, the doctors kept saying it usually takes about a year. Therefore, we were told not to be impatient. However, when nothing happened we decided to visit a specialist. After doing the tests it was discovered that I had a poor ovarian reserve. My amh levels were also very low. So it is at this point when things start to turn against me. I was dealing with emotional trauma and a lot of other stressful situations. The doctors said in my case treatments had a very low chance of success. So I am honestly hopeless these days.
Monica replied. Hi, I am from Canada. I just joined this group. I can understand what you are going through. Infertility is a curse. It is so difficult to be dealt with. It not only gives physical pain. But also exhausts one mentally. I have been facing it for years. I even tried IVF twice. Unfortunately it didnt worked for me. My husband divorced me afterwards. He couldnt handle my depression. We invested all our money on IVF attempts in hope to get a baby. All our efforts go to trash. I am remarried now but I am still not sure if there is any way out for me.
rosie petal replied. how are you? Hope you are doing well. I am extremely in pain that you are suffering from infertility too. infertility is a big problem nowadays. But don't you worry I will provide you with a platform that will treat you very well. Surrogacy is the platform that will provide you with a method to become a mother even if you cannot pregnant normally. Surrogacy will provide you with a hundred percent result. this method also is the last hope of the infertile women. IVF also good. Make a meeting with the doctor. but surrogacy is the best. you heard very clear about many clinics. Their service is so good. There they are providing the details about treatment. Hope for best. Manage an affordable clinic. Best wishes to you. A lot of prayers for you.
rosie petal replied. how are you? Hope you are doing well. I am extremely in pain that you are suffering from infertility too. infertility is a big problem nowadays. But don't you worry I will provide you with a platform that will treat you very well. Surrogacy is the platform that will provide you with a method to become a mother even if you cannot pregnant normally. Surrogacy will provide you with a hundred percent result. this method also is the last hope of the infertile women. IVF also good. Make a meeting with the doctor. but surrogacy is the best. you heard very clear about many clinics. Their service is so good. There they are providing the details about treatment. Hope for best. Manage an affordable clinic. Best wishes to you. A lot of prayers for you.
Lily replied. Hey, hope you are doing well. Let me tell you my story. I have been TTC for so long, its been 8 years now. I had my and last pregnancy 8 years ago. And got miscarriage after 5 months in an road accident. I was then diagnosed infertility. But there is no cause of my infertility. I am physically fit, mentally fir even. I suffered a depression due to this 5 year ago. And it took me a year to overcome. Infertility has cursed my life so bad. I am now planning for my surrogacy. Few months back a friend of mine asked me why don't i try surrogacy. So i gave it a thought. I have been researching on surrogacy for so long. And i found it quite safe. I haven't yet contacted any clinic for it. But soon i am going to. If anyone have a good clinic in mind, do suggest me.
emily replied. Hi dear, hope you are doing well. I am new to this group. I am from Ireland. I can relate to your situation. I know how nerve-wrecking infertility is. I am also an infertile. Its been 10 years now that I am trying to conceive. It is very difficult to keep going. I get so depressed at a point that I had to refer a psychiatrist. My hubby loves me very much. He has always been there for me. He took care of me in this phase. It is due to him that I feel better now. He supported me in my bad time. He motivated me to try again and I am now trying to gather courage to try once again.
2018-08-14
#21
Name: Laroine Subject: RE:Trying since long
My husband contacted a number of clinics from around the globe. Than we moved to Europe. In Europe we stayed for 4 months. But we didn't found a satisfying clinic. After 4 months we moved t another state. There are many clinics regarding surrogacy. We picked a good clinic. The clinic started our process soon and all things went well. The clinic found a good surrogate for us. Many people are talking about surrogacy here. I thought i should also share my experience with surrogacy with you people here.
I am from Japan and was happily married. I had hysterectomy cancer from early stage. I went for the treatment and i was cancer free. But this resulted in lifetime infertility. First 6 years of our marriage passed on happily roaming around the world. After 6 years we both felt the need of our children. But we both knew that i am infertile. So my husband decided that we will go through surrogacy to have a baby. Japan has banned the surrogacy. Now the surrogate is pregnant with our twin daughters. The clinic and the surrogate made our dream come true of having a baby.
2018-08-14
#22
Name: Dhriti Subject: RE:Trying since long
Hey, everyone. I'd like to share my story. I tried for a very long time. TTC can be so time-taking. Annoying, as well. You just don't get any news! It's so hard to be in that situation. I'm impatient by nature, as well. So, thank God for my patient husband, I guess. It was a really difficult time. When after a few months I found out that I was infertile. And there was no point in trying. It was a heartbreaking time. I found success a few years later through IVF. But, this is for the ladies who are TTC. Just hang in there. And keep visiting your doctor. It's really important. Good luck to all of you. I really hope it happens fast!
2018-08-14
#23
Name: lady_gaga Subject: RE:Trying since long
Since you are still young in the infertility world they would have suggested starting with IUI. You can try a couple more rounds of IUI, but I would move to the next step if it doesn't work. If your husband's sperm report is not optimal the best option may be to move to IVF+ICSI or PICSI if your clinic offers that and if you can afford it. And if you are not 100% satisfied with your current clinic don't hesitate to get second opinions. If you are in the US, the Resolve infertility forum is an invaluable resource.
2018-08-14
#24
Name: jess Subject: RE:Trying since long
Hello. I hope you are doing well .im glad you shared this post. Infertility has become so common nowadays. People are struggling with it for years. It gives them frustration and depression. Imagine trying for years but ending up with no baby or a news that you can never have one of your own. Nowadays more techniques like IUI and IVF have been developed. They are so advanced. They used to be really expensive but now they are affordable in some places. I hope people benefit from this.
2018-08-13
#25
Name: emly Subject: RE:Trying since long
Hi, hope you feel good. Majority of women get pregnant but cannot become a mother due to MC. MC is the main reason behind infertility. Infertility becomes more popular day by day. Every woman deserves to become a mother. But due to infertility, it's not possible. My friend also an infertile. The main reason for her infertility was her 3 MC. But Thanks to fertility clinics. Now she has a cute daughter from surrogacy. Surrogacy is the best option for an infertile couple. However, IVF is the other treatment for infertility. But surrogacy is safer than other treatments.
2018-08-12
#26
Name: seeta_ajay Subject: RE:Trying since long
Hey, How are you? I hope everything was fine for you. I hope that your child is now with you. Surrogacy is a beautiful process. It has helped many infertile women. I don't know why it is the most controversial topic in India. We Indians can't say that we have a baby through surrogacy. Our society is not accepting this. But we have 8toaware all people. It completes our families. There should be awareness sessions about surrogacy. People will accept it gradually. Hope for the best. Stay strong all.
2018-08-12
#27
Name: mumtaz_jahan Subject: RE:Trying since long
Hey , hope you are doing well. I loved your story. You are such a strong lady. It is such a brave step to try again and again. Your husband is a gem of a person. I am so happy that you finally made it. As they say all is well if it ends well. As for your question. In my life my Deaerest Hubby is my support system.I had conceived twice but had to abort my child both times. Because it was an ectopic pregnancy. I had faced severe depression afterwards. I had no hope left. I started ignoring friends and family. But my husband was by my side in that difficult time. He handled my mood swings and helped me overcome my depression.
2018-08-11
#28
Name: Lily Subject: RE:Trying since long
Hey, hope you are doing well. thank you so much for posting this. Infertility is such a curse. I have been facing it since so long. It was so hard for me to deal with it and survive it. but i survived anyway. I had a miscarriage 8 years back. And i couldn't conceive at all after that. Infertility has no as such cause. I don;t know why this happened with me. I am considering surrogacy these days for my opt. I have been researching on it a lot. I am preparing my mind. As this is the last time i am going to try for my baby. and if i fail i will quit everything. So making a decision is hard. I hope i make a right choice. And it works for me also. Need wishes and prayers.
2018-08-11
#29
Name: Espa Subject: RE:Trying since long
Infertility is very hard to live with. I am infertile because of hysterectomy cancer. Surrogacy is ban in Japan. So we moved to Europe to find surrogacy related clinics. We consulted many clinics in Europe. Than we came to know about a good clinic.
We found a very good clinic.
Now we are having twins with the help of this clinic.The clinic gave us a very good surrogate mom.With the help of that mom we are having our two twin daughters.
We are so excited and happy.
2018-08-11
#30
Name: jesmine Subject: RE:RE:Trying since long
Infertility no doubt is a curse to have in life. But I am happy to see that you get rid of it. Thank you so much for sharing your experience with us. Cna you please tell me which clinic you consult in Europe and What they are offering. I am also an infertile woman and my infertility cause is an accident I had a few years ago. I am also looking for a solution to my Infertility. Please guide me with this. Do tell me about all the procedure you go through in this time. Looking for your response please help me with this.
2018-08-10
#31
Name: LokiePoo Subject: RE:Trying since long
I had 3 miscarriages losses. This kind of losses is very hard to be faced. I tried very hard to be pregnant but there was no luck with it. I tried again and again. Finally, i was pregnant for the first time. I was very happy and then all happiness went away with a miscarriage. Than again i was pregnant for 2 more times. But again both pregnancies resulted in miscarriages. My first marriage ended badly and i was totally heartbroken. Than i met another man and he was very kind and good. I am going to marry him soon. Now i am 43 years old. I told him every complication regarding my infertility. He said he is happy with me. I have asked him that we will go for infertility treatment to have a baby. He has agreed for it. I am so happy. I am going to start a new life soon.
2018-08-10
#32
Name: Lilly Subject: RE:RE:Trying since long
TTC is the hardest period of a woman life. I was also trying to conceive for a long time. But had no luck with TTC. Although i conceived 3 times the miscarriages were in fate. My first husband left me and i was totally broke. Than i was in depression quitting my job and staying up last night. Now i am at an age of 43. I am going to be married again. I have told my husband everything about my complications regarding pregnancy. He is still willing to marry me. He says that he has consulted some good clinics regarding surrogacy and we will go for surrogacy to have a child. I had many complications regarding pregnancy. Now i am happy i have someone to support me. People here have shared their stories of TTC. They also have shared their success stories of Surrogacy. I am now trying to know the experience of people about surrogacy. If someone has a recent experience of surrogacy than kindly share with me your experience. Thanks in advance.
2018-08-10
#33
Name: emly Subject: RE:Trying since long
TTC is a hard thing to handle. I can understand the pain of infertility or unable to conceive. Women who are suffering from these issues shouldn't lose hope. losing hope is not the solution to the problem. There is always a solution to every problem and a treatment for every disease. I was TTC for 4 years. I don't even want to remember my time of difficulties. It was really bad. But science is very advanced now. Now I am a mother of two. I wish no women have to go through this. Good luck everyone.
2018-08-10
#34
Name: emly Subject: RE:Trying since long
Hi, I don't have my personal experience of IVF. But my friend had experienced IVF. She suffering from infertility due to PCOS. It's very hard to cope up with this. Then she chose a good fertility clinic for her treatment. Now she has a cute boy. The doctor also gave her the strick instructions after IVF like took healthy food take rest and do the slow walk. These are instructions were very profitable for her. I read a lot of experiences about fertility treatment at this forum. That is very profitable for us.
2018-08-10
#35
Name: DiviyaSalana Subject: RE:Trying since long
Hello everyone! How are you all holding up here? Well, just joined the forum. So, yeah! Anyway! I'm a PCOS patient. So, conceiving naturally isn't possible for me. Looking for assisted procedures. But, still trying my best to conceive smh. Confused eventually! Anyway! Let me know who is in the same boat as mine. xx :)
2018-08-10
#36
Name: boone Subject: RE:Trying since long
yeah, she is right. I am new here. Actually not a new at all. Once I visited this forum. I couldn’t find miscarriages post. That’s why I didn’t make any post regarding this. I just wanted to ask a question regarding miscarriage. But I am happy to see this topic on your forum. It has been seen that miscarriages affect a woman’s life so complicated and full of arguments. A woman can’t think again to conceive naturally. She just lost hope. my sister experienced this. We have tried a lot to bring her back to life. Young generation right after their marriage face these conditions on a high level. They don’t take care of the precautions prescribed by their doctors.
2018-08-10
#37
Name: Anika Subject: RE:RE:Trying since long
hey. how are you? hope you are fine. I'm struggling with infertility too. I m so sadly. I just dont know what to do. there one good clinic. my husband is I contact. you should look for surrogacy or IF too. they are really helping infertile couples. I wish luck. sending you baby dust. I hope to find success. till then. take care. bye.
2018-08-10
#38
Name: ChandniTejas Subject: RE:RE:Trying since long
Hey there Dear. How are you doing? I hope it's all great. I am really sorry for all the women facing mc. I myself have been there. I had one a year ago. It was due to a car accident. My husband took me to surrogacy. I wish no one ever faces it again. However, sometimes these are due to women, not taking care. However, a lot if it is also beyond their control. I know things will work out. Juts are strong and positive. Good luck to everyone.
2018-08-09
#39
Name: Anjali Subject: RE:Trying since long
Hey, there. How are you? I hope you're alright. I read your story. It was really nice. It was also super motivating. And, very very inspirational. I'd like to share my story of surrogacy, too. I was declared infertile. And after losing all hope, I came across a surrogacy. It was a life saver! For the treatment, I went abroad. It was the best decision that I made. I enjoyed a bit of luck and it went really smoothly. A year on, now, I have a beautiful baby boy!
2018-08-09
#40
Name: Espa Subject: RE:Trying since long
Many people are talking about surrogacy here. I thought i should also share my experience with surrogacy with you people here.
I am from Japan and was happily married. I had hysterectomy cancer from early stage. I went for the treatment and i was cancer free. But this resulted in lifetime infertility. First 6 years of our marriage passed on happily roaming around the world. After 6 years we both felt the need of our children. But we both knew that i am infertile. So my husband decided that we will go through surrogacy to have a baby. Japan has banned the surrogacy. My husband contacted a number of clinics from around the globe. Than we moved to Europe. In Europe we stayed for 4 months. But we didn't found a satisfying clinic. After 4 months we moved. There are many clinics regarding surrogacy. We picked a good clinic. The clinic started our process soon and all things went well. The clinic found a good surrogate for us. Now the surrogate is pregnant with our twin daughters. The clinic and the surrogate made our dream come true of having a baby. If someone is looking for some good clinics for surrogacy. You should surely go for it.
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