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Name: rk

i am 25 yr old girl.my bf is 28 yrs.we are going on steady for past 1.5 years about. nothing was wrong. we used to have our share of fights/problems etc. then he went onsite(v both work for a famous IT company here in india) some 7 months back to US. we were regularly in touch. distance too did not change anything. our marriage got fixed this february for dec this year.he came some 1.5 months back to see me/his family/my family too.that time also things were fine. he went back then. for the past one month or so he is acting cranky.i think marriage responsibilty is scaring him.since everyone makes plams and dictates to him.but because of this he has started hurting me.not very offensive but small things which he used to not say before.also,he is showing lot of ego etc and says things like if u r frustrated with me u can leave me etc. i got so depressed tht i went and spoke to his sister.she was surprised at her brother' s behaviour and said will talk to him when there is an oppurtunity. she to says he is over stressded and so ignore his talks/behaviour.she says may b the marriage jitters.but only i know how his bahavious has changed.his love has reduced.care is still there.i am so scared wht is wrong. wat can i do about this situation.
Thanks in advance

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