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I heard somewhere that hymenoplasty or hymen repair is done by the doctor only if there are cultural or religious reasons behind doing so. I have read in the newspapers and magazines about restoring virginity. I have also heard that most of the surgeons will not perform hymenoplasty if a woman has already undergone a delivery. Hymen repair is considered due to cultural issues. But hymen can get tore due to masturbation and heavy exercises like rope climbing, swimming or cycling. If you are marrying someone you should not doubt your wife as it can be possible that hymen might be absent from birth.

Virginity is the big issues. My friend told me about her anxieties before she was getting married. She had a relationship before her marriage. She was worried what if her husband finds out that she is not virgin as she would not bleed. She enquired a surgeon regarding the issue. She was confused whether to go for an operation or not. But later on she decided not to undergo. It was her personal decision later I read many things regarding hymenoplasty. It is a debatable topic.

I am going to marry in coming November. My marriage is an arrange marriage. I know my wife well. I never really talked with her about past relationships. I belong to highly cultural family. I know that a sexual intercourse is not necessary to take place to break the hymen. Hymen can get ruptured by heavy exercise and using tampons. But as I am virgin, I want my wife to be virgin. I know virginity does not matter where there is love and understanding but my thinking is not like that. Is there any way to know that woman is virgin or not? According to me virginity is the highly debatable issue even today.

there is no way u can go know she is virgin or not,unless u take her to a doc for check up.
sometimes the hymen breaks at intercourse sometimes not.sometimes its broken due to exercise and other works.some hymen are hard to break and may go off after delivery only.
so stop thinking abt such things and enjoii ur marriage