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Hi all

I am in this forum again after a gap. Hope u all remember me , i did my first IVF(ET) on 19th March .But from Day 1 of ET i suffered many prob. like fever , Urine infection ,Dycentry etc. But to my utter surprise on 16th day of ET (on 4th April) I got +(positive)result . Beta HCG was 138 ,which is quite fine doctor told me(and it is also my 1st IVF, tht also only two embryo was transfered) . We all statrted hoping . But ......Today morning bleeding started When i reached hospital By sonography it is found tht uterus is empty . So my dream came to an end. I am surprised wt happened to me tht this good result of Beta HCG turned to Hoax.

Life is so cruel i cannot take this burden anymore.


RIA Padma replied. Hi Ria
So sorry to hear this...you are on the rt track..be positive..though i understand the pain. Last year same time..i was shuttling to the doc..injection..scan..moos swings..now stopped everthing...feel bad that i could have tried more, but can' t help the depression...

enjoy life...and kid is not the ultimate Raj replied. Hello Mrs.RIA,
Pleasedon' t ever think that there is no hope. My wifeis3rdmonth pregnant in the third attempt of IVF.So life is not cruel as you think.Keep trying as long as u can.One of my friend also had same experience like you that initially they got possitive and after some days it failed.They are still trying in Qatar.Please don' t loose your heart.I always come to this forum to see a good news from you.I am confident that you will give soon a good news.
Life is not cruel..... it is thrilling.
S M replied. I used to come to this board very regularly at one point.Now I am just an observer but couldn' t help myself reading your post.
I am 31 waiting for my li' l baby,everybody younger to me have either had a baby or are about to have one.I belong to the unexplained category.I am about to start my IUI now,but believe me I know the pain of not knowing the answer to your questions sweety,is your question\" WHY ME\" .
There is no answer to that question.Just stay positive,The very fact that you got a positive sign in your preg kit is the first step to getting there.Now with the knowledge,just hang in there,next round is going to be yours definitely.
Be cheerful and keep praying.It is going to happen.Very SOON.
All the best. Sanjana replied. Ria,
Everyday I was coming to msg board just hoping to see good news about you..getting ++.
Do you have any left over frozen embryo' s?.Try it after a while..You know..one thing I also realise more than how we respond to medication, luck plays a big role too...

Mean time try doing some meditation..
meditation makes the souls to attract towards you.and bring peace towards you.believe me more than medical science, these things make you get pregnant.according to one of my well known frind who is a doctor by herself, believes this too..
To give you some support, I want to let you know that , I have two failed ivf' s b' coz of my bad luck..hoping this time my ivf will be successfull.Lots of love.