Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

i' ve been married 9 years so i understand what pressure feels like dear.first of all never tell anyone except for ppl who really care about u,that ur TTC.this eases out the pressure a little bit.since u said that u have really painful periods,u might have endometriosis which hinders conception.but before going to the doc to get it checked out,u really have to think hard HOW PAINFUL ur periods really are.Only see a doc about it if its deadly painful.else the doctor will unnecessarily put you on medication and also u' ll have to get both diagnostic and corrective laparoscopy done(which are minor surgeries).never tell a fertility specialist that u have painful periods if they fall into a \" tolerable\" category.i' ve been to all phases of fertility treatments and now finally going for IVF next fertile cycle.its been a long and exhausting journey and destination is still far. mitasha replied. hi rene,
i must say,u r really bold...and courageous to be in the shoes that you are. :)
no body really knows tht my husband and i are ttc.see,my period is very very painful but only for about an hour or 2 on the first day only.and then im very very normal.so the best way i have found out for myself is to take a pain killer and be in bed for rest. and i guess after 2-3 hours im pretty fine.
as for you,i wish u all the luck.my aunt had a baby after 11 years of their marriage.and trust me,he' s a lovely boy. so i wish u all the happiness and good luck in you efforts.and once again,thanx a ton for ur valuable advices.
luv,
mitasha..