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Hi friends,

My problem is bit weird.I stay with my husband in DElhi NCR.My in-laws stay in Delhi and my hsuband is their only child.We shifted to Delhi NCR just beacuse my husband' s office shifted out of Delhi & the new office was 2 hrs driving distance from my in-laws home.We have been staying on rent so far but last month we decided to buy a house in the NCR only because the rent were sky high.Just to mention that both my husband & myself are 29 and chartered accountants and we earn handsomely.

The house that we selected to buy costs 78 lakhs .For the house , my husband paid 6 lakhs in cash out of our post & pre marraige savings.My FIL paid 20 lakhs in cash (the black money part) and my husband is taking home loan for the remaining portion of 52 lakhs.My husband now wants the new home to be registered in his father and his name because that will give tax benefits to my FIL.I am so frustated at my husband' s decision to not included my name in the house registration.I do not know how to convey this message to him.as a CA myself , I know that my FIL will get tax benefits but I too want my name to be included as an owner of the new house because it will be my dreamhouse but how do I make my husband understand.I am in a way disheartened with my husband.

Pls friends help me.
hi replied. dear,
why u girl think negative, is not ur hubby n In-laws good with u, if not then ur thinking is ok, if they r good then wat else u want in life ,let them be happy how long will they live ,after him u r only going to get , why fight n spoil the good relative, u may get everything in life but love n happiness once gone is very difficulf to get,
so my dear be happy n make them happy.
think them as ur parents. hello replied. hello dear,

Since he is the only son to your FIL, dont worry..it will be yours anyway after some years...
This is my thought. When you are in relation, you cannot expect everything should be on paper. Even if it is not in paper, its your home only.
I don' t know why you girls are thinking so silly...
as XYZ mentioned, be open and talk to your husband. That is the only way to get solution.
best of luck xyz replied. Hey Nitika,
I understand your situation. It looks like your FIL is giving more share than your husband (it may be black money). You didnt mention about your share in this as you are also CA and earning. Do you work or not work?
If you do not work and do not earn money, its very simple, ask your hubby to include your name just for your happiness. If you are earning and have some savings, then give something as your share and ask him to have your name also on it because it will help you also to get tax benefits...

NO PAIN NO GAIN. talk to ur husband...be open and frank..dont fight...
All the best