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i have triplets. 2 gals and 1 boy. they listen to me but sometimes they r very stubborn and i dont know how to handle it and end up hitting them.i know its bad but negotiating or keeping patience is not possible.my in laws kep interfering. plz help Dinkle replied. Hello pooja please do not worry and make sure next time you raise your hand to your kids just think that you are making this a problem for yourself as this will not the solution to the matter and you will be blamed for the wrong things. Diana replied. Please pooja stop hitting your kids as this is real crime and you are loosing the love and affection what they are expecting from you as this will have a huge impact in their upbringing so please make sure that you should not repeat. Deepika replied. According to me you should do one thing first of all if your mother is there so please speak to her and ask for some advice on how to deal with the situation and on the other hand please hire a full time maid who can help you in this. Deepali replied. If i would be in your place i would spoke to my husband and would have asked for some moral support and help as this is really tough to handle three kids at a time and that too with the same age, i can understand your problem dear and can feel the pain also. Deena replied. Pooja please do not tell me that you are still hitting your kids and you have not stopped this act as this is really weird to hear from a mother who always love their kids as they are and not treat them as you are dealing with them so please stop this immediately. Beenu replied. Hello dear please do not get panic and do not worry at all as this is very common thing and you should not worry at all, so please make you continue the same and make your kids loving yourself and be happy always. God bless you dear. Biral replied. Hello Pooja please guide us as we are also facing the same issue and my wife also gets frustrated with the same issue so please guide us what to be done as this is a matter of concern and we are unable to solve this so please guide us as what can be done. Binita replied. hello dear this is Binita and i am a child specialist and after reading your post i must say that what you have written and doing is completely wrong with your kids, if you cant handle your kids all alone then please keep a maid who can help you in this. Bikas replied. Hello madam even we are blessed with twins and we also face the same issues what you have said bit then you should know how to handle that situation rather than hitting the kids please speak to your husband on the same and ask him to help you in this matter. Ankita replied. Please tell me one thing during your childhood i am sure even you must have done lots of mischief so is that your mother used to hit you all the time so why are you doing the same with your kids as what wrong they have done and you should think on this very deeply. Anushree replied. This is really sad to know that you hit your kids and why? Is this their problem as they have not done anything wrong so why they are been treated like this so please stop this act immediately as you are being very cruel to them and this will affect them badly. Aditi replied. According to me you should think that you are blessed with three kids as there are many parents who are dying to have kids and are not able to become, so please next time hitting your kids think about them and make this sure that you count your blessings. Anu replied. Hello dear this is really good to see that you are very much concern about your kids and at the same also frustrated with their behavior but lets see the broader picture and please do not hit your kids as they have done anything wrong so please do not treat them like this at all. Anaida replied. Hi Pooja first of all many congratulations for having three kids and i can understand the pain and worry what you are going through so please be calm and relax and ask your husband to take care of the kids with you so that you also get some helping hand and it would be good for you. Anita replied. Hey dear this is really good to see that you are able to handle three kids at one go, hats off to you.Please do not hit the kids as they are not meant for that and kids will do masti, so please think that its their age of doing that and you should not hit them. Kiran replied. Hi dear this is really good to hear that you are blessed with three kids but then at same time you are facing the pressure to up bring them. Also do one thing take help from your family and see that they will help you in guiding. Kavita replied. Hi Pooja please think that how you will feel if you are in the place of them, as kids need more attention and they are not mature enough to understand that, so please dear you need to think different and cant hit them like this. Karuna replied. This is not a big problem as even i have twine but then you need to handle with care and love as they your own kids and should not behave like this, please think twice again when you hit your kids.Need to understand that. Kamini replied. Hello pooja i can understand the problem what you are facing, the best way to solve this please keep a maid for your help so that you will also not get irritated and you will not feel the pressure. All the best dear. Kajal replied. Hello dear this is really sad to hear but then you should understand that you need to be calm and relax with your kids as they are small and they will do mischief, please understand this and make your kids happy and do not hit them.