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i have triplets. 2 gals and 1 boy. they listen to me but sometimes they r very stubborn and i dont know how to handle it and end up hitting them.i know its bad but negotiating or keeping patience is not possible.my in laws kep interfering. plz help dipti replied. hello pooja,
in this age most of the kids done lots of fun and masti also, and your kids also done same things, so nothing wrong in that, and these behavior of kids are so normal, if they are not doing fun, then whom going to do. piyush replied. hello pooja,
you should discuss this your problem with your in laws and with your husband, so they may be get any way to solve this issue, also take care of one things they are kids, and they are not bounded to listen you everytime. laxman replied. hello pooja
first of all stop your domination on your kids, its not good at all, you are good mother no doubt in that, and your in laws interfare in this case its so obvious thing, so its not bad at all. pragati replied. hello pooja,
first hats off to you, that you handle your triplets, but as a responsible mother you should understand them and try to give them own space also, why you expect they are always listen to you. parul replied. Hi Pooja, You have to discuss this with your family. Also admit that it is not always they should listen to you. Give them their own space. Also share your every day responsibilities with your in-laws let them also be occupied with the kids. Kasturi replied. Hi Pooja, this is the age when most of the kids throw tantrums so not to worry. Just see to it that they dont go too hyper and start hitting very badly. Try to console them as far as possible from your end. Czaee Amit Mishra replied. Hitting kids will generate a feeling of hatred towards you when they grow up. Try to be calm and handle them with love and affection. Share your responsibility of handling kids with your inlaws, this will reduce stress and burden. aditi replied. Managing triplets at a time is highly appreciable I advice you please pat yourself first, listen to music of your taste, appreciate them when they do something good and don't compare them with each other. As every individual has their own interest in some activity identify them and keep them busy .

Saloni replied. I know its difficult to handle triplets , but i guess indulging them in some or other activity for every small work should help you. Make activity for every thing and keeping them busy so that they dint get time to fight should help to some extent. kripa replied. it is srsly difficult to raise triplets and if siblings are of same age then they do lot of fighting on small small things like who will wear what and on chocolates and anything. sometimes hitting is the only option u left with. but sometimes u also have too apply some tricks so they stop behaving stubbornly tricks like showing monkey a banana and let work done by them like that. sometimes it helps. Jiya replied. I know it is very difficult to raise triplets, My sister in-law has got twins and she has to spend sleepless nights. I would suggest you to be patient and avoid hitting your lovely kids. You can hire a maid to help you out in taking care of your children.