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i have triplets. 2 gals and 1 boy. they listen to me but sometimes they r very stubborn and i dont know how to handle it and end up hitting them.i know its bad but negotiating or keeping patience is not possible.my in laws kep interfering. plz help Seema replied. Hi Pooja one advice will give you if you be strict with your kids then it is bad as they will be afraid of you always so try to maintain the balance and also try as much as you can not to hit them just scream on them. Sangeeta replied. Hi dear this is completely fine but just make sure you not hitting your kids with any object and also if you are hitting try to control yourself and take a deep breath so that the anger is lost and focus on their up bringing. Shivangi replied. Hi pooja this is very common issue and no need to panic just speak to your mother i am sure she must have also bitten you when you were in the same age, please try as much as possible to control your anger and leave it. Amaira replied. Hi dear please think that you are blessed with three angels and here there are so many parents who are wanting to have babies but cannot have one, please do not treat your kids like this and also please stop hitting them. Anjali replied. I think you need a helping hand to handle three kids why dont you appoint a maid who can help you in taking care for all your three kids, i am sure this will help you and also lessen your burden so then you will not get tired. Anamika replied. Hi Pooja can i tell you one thing if you were in their place you would also be in the same situation and would have not be handled properly so please think in the other way and stop hitting your own kids as its a bad thing to do. Anamika replied. Hi Pooja this is not the right way to treat your kids i can imagine you handling three kids at a time its a tough job but then you need to understand as they are small kids and you need to handle them with care and love. Anju replied. Hi dear please do not think so much i am sure if you are hitting also to your children it might be because of frustration and nothing else so if you are frustrated then please calm yourself or remove frustration somewhere else. Anaida replied. Hello dear first of all please do not hit small children as they can get hurt and you will only not like it, why your in laws interfere in all the matters do you guys stay together is it a joint family kind of thing. Aditi replied. Hi dear must say that you have the courage to handle three children at a time and that to of same age, please do not worry and try as much as you can be patience as they are your children and hitting them is not a good thing to do. naresh replied. hello pooja,
you should discuss this your problem with your laws and with your husband, so they may be get any way to solve this issue, also take care of one thing they are kids, and they are not bounded to listen you everytime. naresh replied. hello pooja,
first hats off to you, for handling triplets, but as a responsible mother, you should understand them and try to give them own space also, why you expect they are always listen to you. niraj replied. hello pooja,
in this age group they are dont know anything about silence and care and all, they just know how to enjoy and play so its a age of do masti and have fun, so dont dominate on them and dont scold on them. niraj replied. hello pooja,
you should discuss you problem with your laws and with you husband may be they will be help you in this case and solve this issue, also they will help you in this case. malti replied. hello pooja,
first of all stop domination on your kid, they are too small to listen everything of you, so try to give them love and care and then see the difference in them. komal replied. hello pooja,
first salute you lady, you had given birth to triplets, and its so much difficult moment to mother, and till now you handle them very nicely, but as a responsible mother you should understand the things. bharti replied. hello pooja,
you should discuss this with you husband so you can keep one aaya for them, to handle them, so it will be easy for you to handle them, and may be you can do other things for yourself also. jagruti replied. hello pooja,
in this age most of the kids done lots of fun and masti and your kid one of them, so there is no point to angry on them or what, so nothing wrong in that, these behavior of kids is normal. jhanvai replied. hello pooja,
you should keep yourself calm in this case, and you must keep patience because if you show anger on them , they dont understand anything and they also start crying and make everything messy. kabir replied. hello pooja,
you handle trilets, itself it is big thing, when there is siblings of same age then there is lots of problems which is mother going through it, but here triplets so big issue, and you handle it very nicely.