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i have triplets. 2 gals and 1 boy. they listen to me but sometimes they r very stubborn and i dont know how to handle it and end up hitting them.i know its bad but negotiating or keeping patience is not possible.my in laws kep interfering. plz help Gitika replied. Hi dear please tell me one how can you be so weird as this is not done, please stop this immediately i can understand that you are feeling the pressure but then you should take someones help in taking care of the kids. Geetu replied. Hitting your kids is not the solution as you are making them more worst, so please stop hitting them and think twice that they need you badly as you have to concentrate on all your three kids. All the best dear. Geetanjali replied. Hello dear how can you hit your own children, this is something really weird and one should not do like this. Please stop hitting your kids as they will not feel happy and it might be that they become more stubborn. Geeta replied. Hi pooja first of all you need to understand that those are small kids and that too yours, so please try to make it calm as much as possible and do one thing in the mean time please take the help of your in laws. Garima replied. Oh dear this is really good to see that you are handling three kids at one time, but please do not get frustrated as this is very challenging and one must be calm and have patience as its not the kids fault and they need attention. Priyanka replied. I must salute you first of as you are taking care of three kids that to of same age and all alone with out any help, please take someones help so that you do not get frustrated and if you are calm there will be no rise of anger to hit the kids. Priya replied. Hi there if you are so worried then stop hitting them why to take so tension and just concentrate on their up bringing and also make sure you treat them with atmost love and care. All the best. Preeti replied. Pooja you are making a big mistake please do not repeat such mistakes again as the kids will not like it and they will start hating for no reason and then it will be very difficult for you to gain back their love for you. Pooja replied. Hi dear this is nothing to worry as you must not be hitting them with force or with an object just be calm and relax just make sure you are not hitting them on regular basis rest its all fine. Tejender replied. Hi dear i must say that you have the courage to handle these kids together as it is not easy to handle one kid and you are managing to handle three at a time so its a salute to you and will pray to god to give you more strength to handle them. Tanvi replied. Hi Pooja please think that you are blessed with angels and treat them one like and also understand that hitting them will not solve your problem as it will only increase, please think over it and god bless you. Tanya replied. Hi dear please share about your experience as myself also blessed with triplets and just cant imagine who to take care of all, please share more as need to understand the behavior of these kids and what needs to be taken care of. Tina replied. Hi dear what a blessing you have three kids at a time please make sure you are taking very good care of these kids as they are very special and must be treated with good care and also no need to hit them as kids are very sensitive in nature. Rupali replied. Hi pooja tell me one thing is your husband not supporting you in all this matter as even its his responsibility to take care of the kids if he is not helping you in this please tell him that you need his help as you cannot manage all alone. Raima replied. Hi dear please do not panic if you are feeling so bad then why are you hitting them stop doing that, its very simple to understand that you are loving your kids but when they do mistake you try to make them understand in this manner nothing harm in it. Rachna replied. Hi pooja i can imagine the pain and effort you must be putting to up bring your three kids as its not a joke, myself having one kid but i feel tired at the end of the day running behind him so i can just imagine your position. Reema replied. Hi dear please do not worry so much this is not a big issue as you are saying hitting kids is very normal and i am sure all the mothers must be doing the same but please make sure you do not hit your kids with any object. Shubham replied. Hello madam please do not worry as my wife is same like you even he hits a lot to your son as he is very stubborn in things and never listens to us, we had tried to be very patient with him but then he never understands. Sagarika replied. Hi pooja you can always handle the situation with care and love so please the next time when you are angry try to avoid hitting those lovely kids instead try some different options and make sure the next time you will not hit them. Sarita replied. Hi there those are small kids and are tend to do mischief please do not be hyper and make yourself cool and calm, also when you feel like to hit them just divert your mind into something else and concentrate in different issues.