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Am very balanced person , although I have my share of inlaws troubles I never get my husband bt them and I try to maintain atleast better relation ship with inlaws and Sil' s too .Altough am in constant touch with I still try to far away when it comes sharing details.
My husband being the elder no father had many responsibilities , helping his sisters getting his brother educated , paying uo the donations for his brother.BTW his bro is a doc .and hekping his sisters kids with education as well.
I did help my parents as well.But not much when compared to what my husband did.Me and H are s/w engg' s.He earns a pretty decent salary but even then our balances was 0 by the time we had a kid .I was married for 6 yrs and have 2 1/2 yr old kid .Saved a little bit after the kid and even my hub realised and my BIL education was done so biggest responsibility was behind , this is my life in short.
Did I mention we live in usa and my BIL came here and resumed his doc studies and recently got married , she is also a doc.
I don' t have any personal issues with anybody in the family.
Them both being the docs , they gonna be pretty rich in few yrs , will they evevr appreciate what we did? We had spend all the money for these people and comparitively are we gonna be poorer than them in few years .I know it might be a jealousy feeling but how can I get overrid of that?
I see myself being dull but don' t find a genuine reason .......I know my life is gonna be my life by end of the end .
I have never been a bad person to any of these guys , my MIL visits us evevry year , my co-sis is with us right now and will be with us until my BIl gets employed....no problem with any of those.
Most of the time my house is filled with my husband relatives ...I never mind ever they don' t do much help ...I cook as much as I could else order out........
Why is this feeling killing that they gonna be much richer than us.........I was trying to get rid of it as much as I can.
Friends help me to get out from here with your suggestions..... sss replied. hi engg,
see,i can completely understand you.even i have similar thoughts.my BIL is also getting married.he is staying wth us right now,after marriage he will shift.my co-sis is from a richer family,but my hubby is better placed than my BIL and i also have a good job where as she is yet to find a job.still i sometimes feel bad thinking that she is more beautiful,more rich than me,so my in-laws might give her more importance etc etc.i too know all these are unnecessary thoughts and it is only me who is making the comparisons and being unhappy.i also dont have the answer to the question that why we are like this.so your post is a big relief to me to know that there are others who feel the same.
only thing we can do is to try to overcome these feelings.it make our beautiful present life complicated.so whenever you feel low,come and talk to me.
sss