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Hai, I want to share few words with u and i beleive it will help u.

First of all, I can understand how it would be by running in toes from morning 7.30 to night 10.30. And apart from this, too much of words and issues from parants side. Mean while u need to spend time with ur lovely kid. It is really hard.

Ur little one deserves for ur love and affection, but if this condition exceeds, then he will aslo face the same situation. from 2 years onwards, he will understand what is happening in house, i.e.Hearing that grandparants are not willing to look after him, mom is not spending much time to play.

If i were in ur situation, i will shift my house to somewhere near by office i.e. 20 to 30 min drive. then i will hire a older or elderly person for full time, including cooking, house cleaning and taking care of kid (charges may be high, but this will help u much). i think u can have this facility from any man power assciations. U can do some arrangements, by fixing any recording device or any security webcam to see what is happening in ur absence. Or u can ask help from nearby houses to keep an eye about the person in ur house.

Then by shifting ur house u can spend morning 1 hour and evening 1 hour with ur lovely kid. U can take him to grandparants once in 2 weeks or 1 month. Or let them visit him.

Donot think about ur self. think about ur kid
who is missing u. his only world is u and only u from this age. Decide and be free from all issues and help ur son to face this world with happiness. take care. ineedhelp replied. thank you so much... it is soo difficult to think abt living separate.. but i think it is the best for me and my kid. afterall that is the most important thing to me right now.