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Trying since long:Depressed, Got my periods!!

2006-10-30

Name: Nikk's Hi All,

I got down today after being delayed for 10 days. this is the first time i got delayed ever and I had my hopes high...but alas i am not pregnant....I just don't understand what is wrong with me ....if both me and my hubby are fine medically then why in the world can't I conceive?...wht does god want from me? why isn't he listening to my prayers...wht shud i do? am going crazy....it really hurts...sorry for venting it out like this...i really need support from u guys ..pls help.

In tears
Nikk's

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2006-10-31

Name: Sonal
Subject:

Heyy Nikks

Heyy Nikks,
Pls dont b depressed sweety..I have always been a silent reader of this board and now touch wood, am on April'07 board.
I know it sucks..WE all who are here know tht.. but hang in there babe!!Just want to share this with u..
When we started TTC, my periods just grew a mind of their own!! They wud come n go at random.. sometimes twice a month and sometimes nuthing for two months! Then my gynae figured out tht i had PCOS and then they started coming on time.. but again.. when we started trying( after 3 months of bcp),They started acting up even with clomid too.. I was soo down..I cant even begin to tell u. N then I turned to Sai baba.. i fought with him.. had so many sleepless nites.. and finally left everything to him...at the same time continued my meds n walks.. and tht month , i tested positive!!I didnt even test @ home.. coz i thought .. ohh the periods messed up agian.. It will happen sweetie.. Just hang in there.. and keep praying..HE is watching over us.. He will surely listen to our prayers..Just waiting for something nicer to come ur way!!
And atleast.. u know there is nuthing wrong with u.. u are getting ur periods.. So, enjoy one more month of babydancing,GAL!!! will remember u in my prayers.. for sure!!
Hugs n love,
Sonal

2006-11-01

Name: Nikks
Subject:

Thanks Sonal!!

Hi Sonal,

many thanks for your sweet words. Am glad to know that you are going to be a mum soon....take gud care of urself and hope u have a sweet darling baby in ur arms soon...i am trying to be positive everyday and I do have my share of fights with god ...i guess he is too busy to hear my prayers rt now so i will wait till he hears...hope so tht day comes soon...thanks once again u take care.

love
Nikk's

2006-10-30

Name: Padma
Subject:

Cheer up!!!

Hi Nikki:

The same emotions that you are feeling is what i also feel when it fails. Please remember it is very important to be very positive about the whole thing. It is easy said that done, but we don't have many options. Try meditating and take deep breaths when you feel very depressed!!!

I hope we all get to hear the good news soon for all of us.....

2006-10-30

Name: Nikks
Subject:

Thanks Padma

Hi Padma,

Many thanks for your sweet words. I am trying my best to keep my cool. It's just so upsetting that when there is nthg wrong with me then why shud god stop me frm having a baby..? it just hurts to think this...but am doin my best to stay positive. thanks once again. take care.

Love
Nikk's

2006-10-30

Name: S M
Subject:

Cheer up!!!!

I know that you are very upset sweetie,its hard and unfair I know that too but don't feel down or give up.

I know the feeling and to be honest it sucks.But the only thought that lifts my spirits in the end of the day(rather period) is the feeling that I am that closer to one day getting my l'il angel.

Don't pull yourself down.It will happen very soon, especially when you least expect it.All the best and keep smiling and be happy always even when everything looks depressing.

You are that closer to getting your cutiepie.

2006-10-30

Name: Nikks
Subject:

Hey S M!!

Hey deary,

Nice to hear from you after a long time. ope you are doin fine too. thanks for being there for me ...it feels so gud to see messages frm all of you. I get the strength from you guys a lot. I guess you are right I shud think that I am more closer to getting pregnant now than ever. i will surely keep this thought always in my mind if I fail each mth...our day will come your are right..Amen!! God bless and take care sweety.

Love
Nikk's

2006-10-30

Name: karishma
Subject:

Nikks

Hi baby!!!

Pls. b Positive. I know its easier said than done!!!!!!!!!!! Dont worry gud days are very much near us!!!!!!!!!

We will all sail thru this place sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooon!!

I used to get depressed like u,I still do, I got my AF on 27th Oct.!!!!!!!!!!! I am just hoping Gods seeing mine and our tears so that he will sail us thru!!!!!!!!!!

Stay Positive baby!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am with u n with all others tooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!

luv u lots n lots of hugs,

Karish

2006-10-30

Name: Nikks
Subject:

Hey Karish!!

Hey sweetheart,

Nice to hear from you. Thanks for the lovely words to buck me up. I just hope so too that we all sail from here soooon...I hope all our efforts don go in vain....thanks for being there and supporting me thru my tough time...god bless and take care..

baby dust on all of us..
love
Nikk's

2006-10-30

Name: annie
Subject:

hi nikks

nikk's,
patience & +ve attitude are the key words here. take each failure as a stepping stone to success. u r nearing your goal. just hv patience & never lose hope. Gods there with u. ask docs if any other specialized tests r required. good luck to you.
annie.

2006-10-30

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Name: Nikks
Subject:

Thanks Annie

Hey Annie,

Thanks so much for your kind words. It gives me immense strength to hear words from you all on this board. You are right I have to be +ve but at times it just doesn't sink in and -ve thoughts take over. But I shall keep trying till I succeed.

Thanks & Baby dust to all..
Love
Nikk's

2006-10-30

#11

Name: strawberrypink
Subject:

Cheer Up Nikks

Nikk's,
Each and every month when i got my periods i thought the same thing dear,I know exactly how your feel....but even this month i thought it wud be so...but suddenly things changed....may be it was ment to be....

Don't worry dear,u ll get your day soon,don't loose your hopes.U r almost there just have little faith,and try again this month...u ll be soon there...

Try to use OPK and st trying almost everyday after your periods....till the next periods....i am sure you ll give us news soon..
Try not to do any hard work or don't stress yourself too much...thinking about this.
God will surely bless you soon...he is hearing all our prayers dear.

Cheer up and get ready to face this month....

Love
SP

2006-10-30

#12

Name: Nikks
Subject:

Hey Sweety!!

Hi Spink,

I feel really nice when I hear from you bcoz when you gave the gud news this month, I actually got very hopeful that one day I too wud be pregnant and I was really +ve. I still try to be but this month i got my hopes high coz i was delayed by so many days and then suddenly i got my periods tday ...my life just came to a standstill and I felt hopeless and helpless...it was like I can never get pregnant...but I am trying my best to be +ve and all thanks to you all here who keep my faith alive on and on and on....thanks for being there for me...I will try n do what you told me this mth and then lets see wht happens...you take gud care of urself..god bless.

Lots of love
Nikk's

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