Relations between a wife and husband depend upon love to each other. This love includes love of relationship, love for care to each other, love for belonging to each other including natural sex relations. I have a question. Husbands kiss, embrace and huge their wives in love and it gives natural coolness to wives. Touching, kissing or playing with breasts also gives coolness and relief to nerves. My question is what is ethical values if a husband, may be for a while in love excitement, drinks even if a few drops of milk when it is the only right of the child and this milk only belongs to the child. What are the moral values or balanced views on this. My husband loves me very much, he loves our children more than me. When first child was born he did not do this but now on birth of second child he some time do it. Though it gives me pleasure but honestly I feel some discomfort. Mrs. Verma replied. First of all I do not agree to the remarks of webmaster/administatrator. This Board is about parents, particularly mothers and babies. The topic mentioned by the person is quite according to this Board, it is another matter it has not previously been touched.

The topic is realy really very fine. We must be realistic We are lving in todays modern world. Before offering my further comments I may mention here two cases which may tell the issue raised is not any false issue.

Zee Smile TV is weekly ofering a programme called With Anupam Uncle. In this programme kids upto age of appears and our great comedy star Anupum conducts this programme. In the audience parents of children and other guests in hundreds sit. He takes interview of 5-6 children in each programme. Parents mostly come with children. The parents feed back the compare before the programme about habits, likings etc of their children. When he starts interviewing one by one he puts very interesting questions but childreen answers are mostly more intelligent and show how bright todays children are. August last year he enqwuired from a 5 years old child \" you mama and papa did not come\" . He was already aware they had not come but just for question purpose he did it. The child' s instant answer was \" Mumy Papa go to bed and close the door. Actually the chilod' s reply was in hindi \" Kari Mar laitay Hain\" . It was a very interesting reply but it showed the reality of today' s world.

The second example I will quote from an American children programme of same nature. The compare asked a 4 year child does he drink milk from feeder. The child below his chest and said No, I am very brave I drink milk in McDonald' s big Mug on which is photo of Micky mouse. The compare said but your papa told me you drink milk from feeder. No, replied the child, I drink in McDoland mug, tuky my younger brother srinks in feed and Papa drinks Mamas milk.

Yhe issue relates to thousands and thousands. It is another matter no one had courage to express. This lady took courage. We must appreciate her courage. Every one of us know well this is issue and it happens. Masy be in the eyes of today' s internet and burger generation this issue is just non sense but our gold generation can well give answer to Morality and Ethics of the issue. Unfortunately those old generation who can give answer to it does has access to interenet and even may not be knowing there exists an internet today.

Frankly speaking I do not have answer to the very big question raised. Readers wold do good if they could find answe and enlighten the other members. This is really a moral issue.