Hello everyone,

i am staying in usa and because of visa problem, my mother is not with me .
i had a baby boy on 12 th of sept and now i am mananging alone , my husband is helping me and he has taken holidays , but still since we both don't know much abt babies, i feel tired all the time.
how is it during teh first few days?
do all babies cry ?
and when will they start sleeping in night?

please help me with your experiences.

love
rashmi rashi replied. hi
i have a 4 month old baby ,i am also in USA and am managing my baby alone no one was here to help except my hubby ,above all that i had acomplicated c-sec
first 15 days my hubby took care with all the friends suppling us with food ,then i got to it ,now my experince says that after 3 months ur bay bot will not cry uselessley he will cry only for reasons i know as of now u donot really feel very happy about the happy but trust me after he is 3 months and u see him change so much that u will love it ,yes u do need to do certain things like if u sleep at 11:00 then start trying to make ur baby to sleep 10:00 let him cry a little so taht he gets hungry and tired and then give him formula milk for the night and not Breast milk cos formula is heavy and regualte his feeding habit so as he needs a feed at sleeping time and alos create an atmosphere that is switch off the lights let there be no noiese at least till he is fast asleep ,this way ur baby might sleep for a long time (mine sleeps for 6-7 hrs at a stretch,takes a feed and sleeps for 3 hrs more ),i really feel for u as i have gone thru all this ,as it is dec now so i hope is better for u
regds rashi
Ritu replied. Hi Rashmi,

My baby is 2 months old, my inlaws were here till he was 1/2 months, now i am all alone taking care of him. i know that for sure that baby sleeps well at night when they three months old. so hold on, u are very near to relax.
give baby a nice warm bath after message they will sleep at leats for 3 hrs at a stretch.

take care
ritu

rashmi replied. Hello niki,
same here, i don't know whether i am in depression or not.
my mood is really swinging now a days.
i haven't yet started cooking exactly, if amogh sleeps for more than 2 hrs then i go to kitchn to do something. i am doing little by little house work.
how abt you?
does kushi sleeps well in the day?
does she cries?
i feel amogh has too much of temper, without any reason he starts crying and some times i will also feel like crying since i can't stop him.
i have back pain also. oh ! i am really waiting to go to india as soon as possible.

take care ,
love to u and kushi
rashmi
niki replied. Hi rashmi, when i was talking to a friend who has 1 1/2 yr old boy, about my depression of handling this change,i also asked her the same question WHEN WILL MY ANGEL SLEEP ALL NIGHT & she replied ur angel wont learn that easy but u & ur dh will learn it soon HOW TO KEEP AWAKE ALL NIGHT. her son stlll doesnt sleep for more than 4 hours at a strech.

Take it easy & enjoy all this. i know how hard it is especially rightnow we dont have any energy & lots of baby work & dh also has lot of pressure as he has office, babe & household.....

Did U start cooking, Washing etc? Do let me know bye & take care & lots a love to little one--------niki